Boo

We stand for love.

© 2024 Boo Enterprises, Inc.

💋🦊Vixen🦊💋
💋🦊Vixen🦊💋

3d

ENTJ

Taurus

8
7

Insecurities or need boundaries?

Somebody's past should not define their future with you. I've heard of others having an issue with those people having keep sakes from marriages or exes in general. My thought are especially if you have children is that the marriage is still important to you and always will be. Allowing pictures, gifts and such to ruin a chance with a great partner just sounds like Insecurities within yourself. I personally have zero issues with keeping items of loved ones fun your past everyone grieves differently. Thoughts? (edited)

Couldn't deal with it

Strange but I'll be understanding

No issue

19 votes

6

14

Comment

Debates Community

The debates community, chat, and discussion.

JOIN NOW

90K SOULS

best
new
Kenny
Kenny

3d

ISTJ

Virgo

8
7

LoL I think I have a box with some pictures of my high school girl friend. I still have a few things that my ex fiance made for me. I don't spend any time or energy on them but it seems silly to just throw them away. It seems silly to worry about the past that hard. Now if someone like had a shrine to past relationships that might be troubling.

2

1

Reply

Rob
Rob

3d

INTP

Cancer

9
1

My personal rule is Ex's are ex's for a reason, and because I've been burnt by all but one ex. Im not particularly sentimental and tend to get rid of things given to me by ex's, burn or delete pictures of almost like a ritual clense however My (now) 14yo cat was given to me for father's day by an ex due to her inability to have children (dodged a bullet there) and I'm not heartless like that (edited)

2

3

Reply

Matthew
Matthew

3d

ISFP

Scorpio

I have a few things from my last relationship before they passed away recently, and i hope having those things wont effect my next relationship. To me they shouldn't have issues unless its something so problematic.

1

6

Reply

MaT
MaT

3d

INTJ

Libra

2
1

Calling your potential new partner "insecure" because he doesn't want to deal with your emotional baggage is the first big red flag. Having a child from another man is the second one. And the third one is you gaslighting others into not to judge you based on your past.

0

0

Reply

Meet New People

20,000,000+ DOWNLOADS

JOIN NOW