Posted Saturday, December 30, 2023
2yLet's see where this debates goes
Whats more important? Being attractive or having a great personality. I'll wait.
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For me, that's a weird phrasing because personality is the bigger part of attractiveness. If you only mean being physically pretty, that's usually not my concern for average looking people. I don't pretend it doesn't matter to me. But I have much less strict standards for physical appearance compared to personality. As long as they're not too hard to look at, I'll find them pretty enough when I like them. If they're beautiful to me, that's a nice to have.
2y
Well, obviously looks don't last forever and if you plan on being with someone for good, you might as well be with someone with a personality that at least compliments yours, and that usually does lead to attraction
2y
Having a great personality is the ultimate form of attraction, whereas looking good isnโt necessarily sustainable by itself.

2y
To be completely honest, I used to give just about everyone a chance that would contact me because it is all about personality.. experience has changed my perspective a bit though. Call me picky, a jerk, whatever, but this is how I feel. Personality has to be there.. if you're boring as heck, lazy, or off your rocker, then it's not going to work. However, being attractive is also important. I can fool myself all day long and say it doesn't matter because we get along and he's fun to hang out with, but at the end of the day I just feel uncomfortable and end up ending it.. or he shows his true colors and makes it easier for me. ๐คทโโ๏ธ Sad to say, the most attractive guys are *usually* the jerks. I have to find Mr middle ground I guess. I still have hope! ๐ ๐
2y
The question can not be answered with knowing both appearance and personality. (edited)
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