This feels relatable... even normal. I feel like I've become numb to it by now, so that's something, I suppose
but yeah... it feels like the only period when you have the realchance of meeting people is at school, and ifyoumiss your chance then - tough. When you're 20..40, you're apparently supposed to go to the gym or volunteer?... and/or be luckyenough to have some third place/hangout spotnearby - manageable if you live in a reasonably well-designed city, but not really workable if it has a 20+ minute explicit travel time tax on it.
Whenever I see people interacting, I feel as if I'm analien or something... and the funny thing is - I've had a fewdates that went reasonably well and I was told that I'm pleasant to talk to... but, especially in apps/services like this, it doesn't really matter when nobody talks to you.
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Other people don't really find other people that easily if you take a moment to think about it.
I would consider that statement as truthful, if others could find the partner for life they want...
So I believemost are just going through trial and error, just like ourselves.
I think it's better to wait, get to know the other persons well, and eventually make a decisionbased not only on what the heart screams, but also our logic.
Best way to go about this, is having a really goodclosefriend, since they might observeredflags that we might oversee when the heart is speaking louder.
Above anything, loveyourself and be truthful to your corevalues. 🥰
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Apostolos
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We all have moments that we feel so lonely and disconnected with the world that it hurts (even those in a relationship if it's in a bad place atm). Try to be open to making connections with people and talk with someone, a friend or two, your family, a therapist, sometimes that's all it takes to feel better, but even if you don't, try to be kind with yourself and do littlethings that make you feel nice, it helps get you out of the temporaryslump.
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Posted Sunday, August 20, 2023
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one of those days
not vibing with the world. sometimes i just feel like I dont belong in it. Ironic after being at pride yesterday lol. how do other people find other people so goddamn easily 🫠now I know what it feels like to be with someone not having that feels like such a massive void
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I feel this pain, I've been in a loop all day switching between apps getting more depressed each time. And then when I realised how much time I spent doing it got even more down on myself
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moooooooooood
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@Jess managed to get myself out that rut bur still annoyed at all the time wasted
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preach it eevee
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Can really relate to this
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Hope your doing ok
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This feels relatable... even normal. I feel like I've become numb to it by now, so that's something, I suppose but yeah... it feels like the only period when you have the real chance of meeting people is at school, and if you miss your chance then - tough. When you're 20..40, you're apparently supposed to go to the gym or volunteer?... and/or be lucky enough to have some third place/hangout spot nearby - manageable if you live in a reasonably well-designed city, but not really workable if it has a 20+ minute explicit travel time tax on it. Whenever I see people interacting, I feel as if I'm an alien or something... and the funny thing is - I've had a few dates that went reasonably well and I was told that I'm pleasant to talk to... but, especially in apps/services like this, it doesn't really matter when nobody talks to you.
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3mo
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Other people don't really find other people that easily if you take a moment to think about it. I would consider that statement as truthful, if others could find the partner for life they want... So I believe most are just going through trial and error, just like ourselves. I think it's better to wait, get to know the other persons well, and eventually make a decision based not only on what the heart screams, but also our logic. Best way to go about this, is having a really good close friend, since they might observe red flags that we might oversee when the heart is speaking louder. Above anything, love yourself and be truthful to your core values. 🥰
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3mo
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We all have moments that we feel so lonely and disconnected with the world that it hurts (even those in a relationship if it's in a bad place atm). Try to be open to making connections with people and talk with someone, a friend or two, your family, a therapist, sometimes that's all it takes to feel better, but even if you don't, try to be kind with yourself and do little things that make you feel nice, it helps get you out of the temporary slump.
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