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Diabolo

1 month ago

ESFP
Taurus
Why you choose to be single

And why are you here ?

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Audrey

1 month ago

ISFP
Virgo

2w1

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Why: I chosed to work on myself instead of doing the same thing, excepting different results. Decided to look in the mirror & smell the roses early on. Why here? Because either I will find better or more suitable friends or find someone that willadd to my life. Either, I’ve decided to do better. Any other questions? You?

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Ian

1 month ago

INTJ
Capricorn

6w7

6

7

"I am single by choice. Just not my choice"

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Raphael Rayson

1 month ago

ENFP
Cancer

4w3

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3

I'm just extremely strange. 🤷‍♂️

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Anthony

1 month ago

ISFP
Aquarius

Companionship isn't worth my peace For memes and ENM flirting

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Abhimanyu

1 month ago

ENTJ
Cancer

9w8

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Because my idea of love is too unique for this world😊

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Emmanuel

1 month ago

ISTJ
Scorpio

1w9

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9

I'm here to speak my mind and find like minded people. I'm single because peace of mind, not dealing with bickering. so much more fulfilling. Dating to me is a hobby. I've lost close friends to distance and cancer. Being alone is one of my strongest characters.

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Kenn

1 month ago

INFJ
Sagittarius

The more I think about being on a relationship, the more I feel like it is a trap. I'm here because I am curious. Do you ever wonder who the auto matchmakers will match you up to?

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Joachim

1 month ago

INFP
Leo

2w1

2

1

Coz I've got a crippling fear for intimacy is rather not face. I'm here to answer random questions like this one.

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Ashley

6 days ago

ISFP
Virgo

4w5

4

5

I am addicted to solitude and I don’t feel ready to share my life with anyone apart from my family and closest friends. I’m here to reach Diamond level!!! Please help out by liking some of my posts and/comments. Thank you!!!!!!

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