What its like to be ENFP?

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Fellow INFP here inclined to negative emotions more. I love how ENFP sounds like INFP but they are far more attracted to positive experiences and emotions of life than an INFP would ever be. I just hope to talk to fellow ENFPs and lose track of time. I am sure they are daydreamers and love to talk about abstract things but lot of things intrigues me about this personality. Wish I could know more.

Taylor · Accepted Answer

Imagine the "I lie to myself" skit but you perpetually live in it every day

ßubbleTea&amp;Tacos · Answer

I guess it really depends on everyone else’s experience, but I initially used get a lot of INFP results on MBTI tests mainly because I approached the tests believing I was heavily introverted than I believed I was. Yet, everytime I got the results my precentages of introvert vs extroverted tendencies weren’t that significantly different (they were either like 2%-3% off. I later learned to realize that I’m probably leaning more towards being an ambivert in a sense where I tend to be pretty extroverted around people that were more introverted than I was, but a bit more introverted around other extroverted people. My overall experience being I tend to be more of the energetized/outgoing one around people that were more toned down and shy than I am, but being around other extroverts sometimes happen to heavily drain me in an energetic sense because everyone’s so loud and full of energy and there are just hoards of them in one place. One important thing I’m self-aware of is that I enjoy human interactions a lot to not be an introvert, because evidently, I always seem like I want to be with other people many times they would rather prefer to have their alone time (and I would take it so personally from how often it happened 💀). So, I generally think it heavily depends on my current mood, the circumstances, the type of crowd that I surround myself in, just many different factors. I honestly feel like being extroverted doesn’t necessarily give more positive influences or emotions for other people because I don’t necessarily think I’m that much of a happy person all the time and I have a lot moments where I’m heavily sad/depressed. Like, I do enjoy making other people laugh and sometimes do it without realizing I do, but I do think that means I am a happy person. However, I do think many of us would like to avoid feeling sad like many people, but I personally don’t find myself necessarily going out my way to seek good experiences everytime I see them, even though, ideally I’d rather do it than not if given the opportunity 💀💀💀. I guess I’m just lazy sometimes. But I do get sad when I’m alone for way too long like for months and months, I think about a lot of negative/sad things that sometimes being around people distract me from those thoughts for a while. Then, when I’m about to be left alone from other people again, I get heavily anxious because I’d have to face those taughts I have once again.

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