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Jonna

27d

ENFJ

Aries

Communication and honesty

I found most men my age get intimidated by my honesty and the fact im very forward. I dont like my time wasted and dont like to waste anyone else's time ether. Its like communication and honesty scares them. Had one telling me that asking a man be emotionally avilable was a tough order now a days... read more

AJ

7mo

INFP

1

2

Is it just me or does anyone else look at the age of the poster before commenting?

Like, if they are like 22 or younger I just scroll on by the content. It looks so weird to me seeing 30/40/50 folks commenting on an 18 year olds thread lol. I know legally it is fine but, it just feels idk a little suss hahaha. I definitely don't want to yuck anyone's yum ether but I was curious... read more

AJ

8mo

INFP

1

2

Anyone else ever catch "cold vibes" from someone & it snaps you awake?

This may be a me thing but very seldom complain about anything and, I am always super supportive especially to the people I care about. However, when I do open up about something and I get told something like "try to remember others have it worse" it is like getting a smelling salt. I am suddenly... read more

Dan

4mo

ESTJ

Leo

3

4

I met a girl on boo who hates men

I’m on this app, which is like a yard sale for emotions, and I see this girl’s bio: “Chasin’ dreams, dodgin’ DMs, my aura’s a fortress ✨.” Sounds like she’s one yoga class away from levitatin’. I notice she’s got a post that says, “Why do guys slide into my DMs with ‘hey’? Say somethin’ real or... read more

Paige

6mo

INFP

Aquarius

2

1

Tifu by dm’ing and not friend requesting

So I am fully new to this app, and I sent a pretty good first DM I would like to think… however, I didn’t know that if I just sent the dm right away and not “matching” with the person, his profile would shoot into the ether and I’d never see it again. So, is there a way to see my own messages to... read more

Postivebutterfly

6mo

INTJ

Capricorn

Be Lonely ether can destroy you or bring you peace or a better version of yourself.💜🌻🌸 (edited)