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Posted Monday, April 24, 2023
11mo
INTP
Libra
Accountability(sorry it's a long rant, no one has to read just need to get it off my chest)
My brother and sister never take accountability for what they do. They blame my mom for stuff when they just weren't good kids. My mom worked to provide for all of use, my dad included (hard to explain). My sister wanted to do what she wanted, be disrespectful and still be praised for it. Slowly my brother started to become the same way, just more violent (leaving holes in the wall and having temper tantrums). They always claim she hates them when she holds them accountable for the choices they make. Recently, my sister and her family lost their home due to not being able to up keep the rent and had to move in with us for the 2nd time(there's a very long story to that but this is the second time they came back). My mom just asks that when their kids make a mess to clean it up. My sister goes back about how she cleans after them but she can't get it all the time and she's in school so when they eat after she's cleaned she don't know. Then she gets mad because my mom said something to her about it because she feels since during the week the house stayed clean, every single time she shouldn't say anything. She takes this out on her kids cursing at them then tries to lie and say to them your gma likes to pick and wants you to not live and keep things untouched. Why live in another's home and don't clean behind your children? There's no excuse and when you tell her she feels she's right and everyone else is wrong. My brother is the same way. It's tiring because everyone wants to come to me and vent about one another, my mom my sister and my brother. While my dad just lives in Arizona free to do what he wants and has no responsibility while my siblings blame my mother for everything wrong in their life. When I get better in my life and I have wealth. I'm going to make sure my mother is well off, and my nieces have funds for when they are maybe 25 that they can access. I have with my job pay for if I pass who the beneficiary is. It's my two nieces that i love dearly(I have no kids) and my mother is the one in charge of the money for them, though I'll have instructions on what to do with it so that my sister can't touch it at all. I pray that they don't resent their mother because of how she talks to them and lies to them about the people in their life when she doesn't get her way. My sister is 30 mind you. Her husband is walked over and belittled, they could have easily kept their apartment if not for my sister using his money to buy thing she wanted and justified. It's a mess and I can't wait to be able to leave. I'm about to have a second job so I can do so hopefully very soon. I love all my mother my brother my sister and my father but they my sister and my brother just aren't great people. My mother does have some ways she's stuck in and my father needs help he won't get cause he thinks nothing is wrong with him. (edited)
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