Sunny

1mo

INFP
Scorpio

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Worst day ever!

Today i heard both of my parents talking about how i don't dress my age. (I'm 20 btw) but they say i look like an old lady instead of a teenager... I don't know how am i supposed to look like for them to consider it "young fashion". I don't feel comfortable wearing super short clothing, neither skinny jeans, tight clothes or clothes that show cleavage. But that's what most of the young girls wear around here... I usually wear tomboy style clothes or dresses with sandals/sneakers/combat boots. Some of them are lose so perhaps those are the lady outfits they're talking about... I'm not even sure what to wear anymore. I just feel very bad and i think i won't go out for a while since I'll be very self conscious in the clothes i own :(

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Elizabeth

1mo

INFJ
Virgo

7w8

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I used to dress like that when I was younger and my parents used to say the exact same thing ironically😂! I just didn't care I liked the way it looked on me. If it's your taste and style rock it who cares what other people think❤👍!

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Sunny

1mo

INFP
Scorpio

5w6

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I guess it's an universal experience then 😂 I'll try to not feel that bad about it and keep rocking my style, ty ❣️

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Sunny

1mo

INFP
Scorpio

5w6

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I posted this just to vent and went to sleep right away. I wasn't hoping to find supportive comments when i woke up 🤧 Thank you guys ❣️

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Mylo

1mo

INTJ
Scorpio

2w1

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Its sad to hear that parents are forcing to follow a certain dress culture:( I hope you make them understand what freedom means and we all have a choice to wear what's comfortable for us.

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Sunny

1mo

INFP
Scorpio

5w6

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That's how it should be, yeah... we all have the right to choose :(

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Josh

1mo

INTJ
Sagittarius

4w5

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Sorry to hear All that considered you are over 18 and an adult in that case so you dress however you want as long as it makes you happy. Don't let it get you down too bad, some parents just want was best but don't get what's best is their support in your choices as long as it keeps you safe and happy.

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Sunny

1mo

INFP
Scorpio

5w6

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I try to feel better about it, thank you 🤧

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Austin

1mo

INTJ
Aries

2w1

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I'm not one to give out advice often, but put me firmly in the camp of "wear what makes you happy." If you've got a unique style, more power to you Edited: advise to advice 😑

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