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Neda

13 days ago

ENTJ
Libra

9w8

9

8

Do you ever feel that you don't like yourself?

I love myself but sometimes recently I feel like I don't like who I am. I would like to change myself into someone else and this is nonsense. I think people think I'm stupid!

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Jon

13 days ago

ENFP
Cancer

2w3

2

3

Have you ever had those quick thoughts where you're driving and think to yourself, "I should swerve into the other lane" even though it's something you would never do? That's your brain basically calibrating it's self to ensure that you wouldn't want to do things like that. I think it's the same concept with sudden drops in self esteem like that.

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Neda

13 days ago

ENTJ
Libra

9w8

9

8

Yeah maybe your right. Do you have any idea what should I do?

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Jon

13 days ago

ENFP
Cancer

2w3

2

3

If you're usually happy with yourself, that's really all that matters isn't it? I wouldn't worry about it too much.

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Neda

13 days ago

ENTJ
Libra

9w8

9

8

Thank you for your help

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Jon

13 days ago

ENFP
Cancer

2w3

2

3

Happy to help.

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AquaticBoneZ

12 days ago

INFJ
Aquarius

All the time, but you have to find the balance, and also if you don't like yourself, then fix yourself.

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Neda

12 days ago

ENTJ
Libra

9w8

9

8

I will. Thanks for your advice

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Pratik

13 days ago

ENFP
Pisces

9w1

9

1

It's either, "Yeah I'm really talented and I love myself" or "I'm a horrible person and I hate myself" there's no in between

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Neda

13 days ago

ENTJ
Libra

9w8

9

8

I don't hate myself but I don't really love myself neither. I just wanna change but I don't know who.

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Stephen

13 days ago

ESTJ
Pisces

1w2

1

2

Good one nid. But I don't think that you're stupid.

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Neda

13 days ago

ENTJ
Libra

9w8

9

8

Thank you it's kind of you

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Jonathan Sasiela

12 days ago

INFJ
Virgo

Yeah i really don't.

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Neda

12 days ago

ENTJ
Libra

9w8

9

8

So we are the same

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Jonathan Sasiela

12 days ago

INFJ
Virgo

I suppose so

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Kenn

13 days ago

INFJ
Sagittarius

Maybe you don't like who you are and are changing to become your true self. I went through that phase and when I changed, I realized that I wasn't the nice guy that I used to be, but I sure liked liked myself and life much more.

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Neda

13 days ago

ENTJ
Libra

9w8

9

8

Maybe your right. Did you do anything specific to change?

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Kenn

12 days ago

INFJ
Sagittarius

It started out by hanging out with my cousin, I didn't grow up around him. He is direct, rude and just doesn't care. Seeing the world through his lens is not something that I considered that people did. So I started saying no to family get togethers that I hated going to. It really boiled down to doing what you really want even if it is rude, and being okay with it. It made me feel free. Before when I was on the phone with someone that I didn't want to talk to, I would stay on because that is the polite thing to do. Now I just hang up. My phone volume is always off because I hate getting phone calls. My relatives hate it, but now they accept it.

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Neda

12 days ago

ENTJ
Libra

9w8

9

8

That's it. So from now I will start do something that make me feel free! Thanks for your advice.

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Kenn

12 days ago

INFJ
Sagittarius

Good luck, the first couple times are hard.

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Nick

12 days ago

INTJ
Cancer

5w6

5

6

the drive to grow is natural. your concern for the opinions of others is also natural. the solution is to find ways to better yourself, in a way that makes sense to you and helps you feel more secure in who you are. in the mean time, give yourself a high five for having a drive to becpme greater! with discipline ans self work comes deep gratification ❤️

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