Posted Wednesday, August 19, 2026
16dBurning Bridges
I'm really good at burning bridges with dead end relationships or people. I know I personally run a strict program when it comes to my boundaries, but im surprised that so many people are comfortable pushing them and are toxic/weird people. Usually I dont pick up the signs until after a few weeks of talking or hanging out with them, I wish I was one of those people that judged someone immediately and knew whether or not somebody was going to be healthy to have around you. Im not sure if that could be a learnt skill. (edited)
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16d
It's a real strength to know how to set your boundaries, and don't worry, it's not an innate thing: spotting the right profiles from the start is a skill that you learn over time!
16d
Oh, it is absolutely a skill that can be learned, but it takes a lot of false starts and mistakes to get there. The risk is accidentally lancing people that are worthwhile, but might have the occasional trip-up. Still, it’s definitely a benefit.
1d
This comes with experience, just to watch more closely, there are also hidden manipulations and getting someone hooked on guilt even in the most ordinary situations and at the beginning of communication, when we communicate easily. The main thing to remember is that everything depends on us.
15d
It's not about judgment here towards another person, but let's say it's the experience that shapes a person.. those who can recognize toxic behavior in someone right away are definitely because they have been a victim of it in the past.
15d
Clearly, it always depends on others.... The more honest you are with yourself, the less influenced by foreign ideals, the smaller the ego, the less you are dependent on the outside or a victim of uncontrollable circumstances. Everything that comes into your life is your own responsibility to handle it in a way that suits you. Ideally, you also take a little consideration for others, and then you can live without idiots. For this reason, I have said goodbye to numerous people, my parents for example as well.
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