I am trying to do that. To focus on myself. But it's hard to go on like there's nothingwrongwhen I had to deal with that person on a daily basis at work
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Thariq
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@Elle i understand you, i've been through what you've been through, it is not easy yes. Maybe because we share the same MBTI & astrology sign. From my experience, you willfeel better if you talked it out with that friend of yours, only then you can lift that heavy feeling from your shoulder, if she/he understand & care about your friendship & put efforts to make it better for both of you, then good for you. But if he/she ignores you or even change the way he/she usually treat you (being cold or indefference), then you move on from there, you've done the best you could to repair your friendship, the rest is up to them, you've done your part.
But if they resort on hurting you emotionally, making you feel worse being around them
Ever heard of INFJs doorslam?
It's INFJs way of setting healthy boundaries from emotional & mental abuse, a message that tells them that 'enough is enough'
We'd still be friends tho, but not asclose as before. We can still meet them on daily basis but without any emotionsattached, The person who has been doorslammed by INFJs are basically dead in our world.
(I've only doorslammed 2 person in my life)
Also do not get stuck on Ni-Ti loop, it's a worse place to stay as anINFJ (please read about it & read the solution if you ever gotcaught in that loop)
Best regards, INFJ.
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Posted Friday, April 7, 2023
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How do you deal finding out that the person whom you that was your friend turned out to be someone who don't value you at all?
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Unfortunately stop relationship despite it's painful.
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7mo
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She's a colleague of mine. So it's hard to do so
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7mo
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@Elle in such case I would reduce interactions, everything not rude or arrogant but just polite and formal.
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7mo
1w2
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@♠️Dana♦️ i am trying to be polite and be civil about it. Just difficult to move on from it because the other party isn't apologetic at all
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7mo
8w7
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@Elle no need to expect anything from the other party, focus on yourself.
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7mo
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I cutted them off and never looked back.
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7mo
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Would've been easy if we don't work together
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7mo
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@Elle that's why you shouldn't mix business with pleasure. If anything find a new job.
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7mo
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I usually don't let the feeling rubs on me (i understand that people are not perfect), we still be friend but i'd make sure to start setting a healthy boundaries with them (giving them less attention & time than before) & focus on bettering myself, & the people who sincerely care
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7mo
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I am trying to do that. To focus on myself. But it's hard to go on like there's nothing wrong when I had to deal with that person on a daily basis at work
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7mo
5w4
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@Elle i understand you, i've been through what you've been through, it is not easy yes. Maybe because we share the same MBTI & astrology sign. From my experience, you will feel better if you talked it out with that friend of yours, only then you can lift that heavy feeling from your shoulder, if she/he understand & care about your friendship & put efforts to make it better for both of you, then good for you. But if he/she ignores you or even change the way he/she usually treat you (being cold or indefference), then you move on from there, you've done the best you could to repair your friendship, the rest is up to them, you've done your part. But if they resort on hurting you emotionally, making you feel worse being around them Ever heard of INFJs doorslam? It's INFJs way of setting healthy boundaries from emotional & mental abuse, a message that tells them that 'enough is enough' We'd still be friends tho, but not as close as before. We can still meet them on daily basis but without any emotions attached, The person who has been doorslammed by INFJs are basically dead in our world. (I've only doorslammed 2 person in my life) Also do not get stuck on Ni-Ti loop, it's a worse place to stay as an INFJ (please read about it & read the solution if you ever got caught in that loop) Best regards, INFJ.
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7mo
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Very sad
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