Oryza

Posted August 26, 2022

ESTJ
Gemini

8w7

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7

Tell me honestly 😁do you check the bio before sending like or accept the request?

I do. I always check the bio before accept the request, I don't accept randomly 😊

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Erica

7mo

ENFP
Cancer

2w1

2

1

I ONLY accept / send request if there is a good bio that actually contains pieces of that person. Effort is attractive!💓 I wish more people would need more than just looks to be able to swipe.

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Oryza

7mo

ESTJ
Gemini

8w7

8

7

Should be 😊✨

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Arjun singh

7mo

ISTP
Virgo

@Oryza Hiii

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Jacki

7mo

INFJ
Pisces

2w1

2

1

Hard agree! When new puts "I'll fill this in later," and has no info about themselves, that's just so lazy. On the other hand, if the profile is a dissertation, I ruuuuuun away so fast

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Oryza

7mo

ESTJ
Gemini

8w7

8

7

@Jacki Yup really agree with you 😂😂😂 some ppl made really long bio

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Marius

6mo

ENTP
Virgo

8w7

8

7

Ok

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rajath

3mo

ENFP
Pisces

@Jacki people with short bios are lazy, people with extremely long bios are jobless? 😂 It need not be that way, maybe they feel bios don't do proper justice, how about having a conversation?

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Hope

7mo

INTP
Sagittarius

I do. If someone didn't put an effort to introduce themselves, I pass. Also, if it's clearly someone looking for a relationship or romantic stuff, pass. Because I'm only looking for pure friendship

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Oryza

7mo

ESTJ
Gemini

8w7

8

7

Yup the point we checked the bio, so everything is clear from the beginning 😊😊 agree with you ✨

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Alana

7mo

ESTJ
Leo

I'm the same way. I've been getting messages from people looking to add to their couple or is open to messing around. That makes me feel pressured to one day having to be sexual with them even if we were to become friends. Hard pass.

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B3AUT1FUL_PH03N1X

7mo

ENFJ
Aquarius

7w6

7

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@Alana Speaking for myself as a person with an open relationship, I would never pressure anyone into a sexual relationship. All my relationships start with a friendship, and if it evolves from there ok, but I have a phone full of number from people I've met from online. More than 3/4 of the people, I've never had a sexual relationship with. I am foremost interested in friendship, and if that's all I ever am with someone I feel blessed. They chose me as a friend. I am not trying to change how you feel. That's your right and I'd never try to take those from anyone. I just wanted to give you a peek into an open relationship. I'm not looking just for sex or even sex. It's the human connection I crave. I'm not into anime, and people really go roller skating still? That's pretty cool. You ever feel like chatting I love new friends. I don't want a unicorn. I want a long lasting friendship with a beautiful soul that loves to have fun and share secrets. Never any pressure for more than a platonic friendship. I do hope one day you find your other half that completes you. It really is an amazing feeling. Good luck beautiful in all you set out to achieve in this life, and my you achieve it all.

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Jez

7mo

ENFP
Aquarius

@B3AUT1FUL_PH03N1X Very well-said!

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Marius

6mo

ENTP
Virgo

8w7

8

7

Ok

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Kaitlyn

7mo

INTJ
Sagittarius

5w6

5

6

Always. Its what most appeals to me when looking. I don't necessarily decline from lack of bio but I do hesitate. Could be a new profile.

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Oryza

7mo

ESTJ
Gemini

8w7

8

7

Oh, I see ... 😊 Thank for sharing

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Rose

7mo

INTJ
Sagittarius

5w6

5

6

Are we the same person in different lifetimes, what? I've never seen someone with the same stats, or as close as your are, to mine.

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Celia

7mo

ENFP
Sagittarius

2w3

2

3

I do. Super annoying when they don't check mine and expect that I'm looking for a monogamous relationship

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Oryza

7mo

ESTJ
Gemini

8w7

8

7

Yup that's the point, agree with you 😊✨✨

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Lucius

7mo

ENTJ
Aries

1w2

1

2

I do. But 99% of people adding me do not. If you don't even read my profile, why do you think I trust you reading my texts? Or in other words, if you aren't even interested in reading my profile, what do you want from me?

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B3AUT1FUL_PH03N1X

7mo

ENFJ
Aquarius

7w6

7

6

I so agree. I know they don't read my profile when they ask questions already answered in my profile. Thank you for liking my pictures but please read bio before messaging. It save time and feelings.

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Sheekenjoy

7mo

INFP
Scorpio

5w6

5

6

I don't honestly

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Elisha

7mo

INFP
Sagittarius

1w2

1

2

Yes. Many I really don’t understand why they’ve liked me because they either have nothing on their profile or we seem like such opposites, I’m wondering what they think we’ll talk about. However, a good amount of them never say anything, so I figure they sent a request by accident. And I rarely send out requests, myself.

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Oryza

7mo

ESTJ
Gemini

8w7

8

7

Yup that my point as well 😂😂 do they really mean to send me request or just press by mistake, agree with you 👍😊

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Non Gmo

7mo

INFJ
Libra

3w2

3

2

I do, but still accept. You never know what the future holds. Sometimes you find out you connect with people you never expect. Accept all, no connections seem to remove themselves haha 2 days later... Maybe not ALL 🤣

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Jojo

7mo

INFP
Capricorn

6w7

6

7

I always read it!

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Oryza

7mo

ESTJ
Gemini

8w7

8

7

Nice😊

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Keila

7mo

INTJ
Sagittarius

6w7

6

7

Always! And the more they write on their bio the better. I can't decide if I'd connect with someone based on their pics alone😅

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Steph

7mo

INFJ
Sagittarius

5w6

5

6

I do

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Oryza

7mo

ESTJ
Gemini

8w7

8

7

💯

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Mohit

7mo

INTP
Libra

6w5

6

5

Obviously if randomly following is fun than whts the point i need few but they must be friendly

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Oryza

7mo

ESTJ
Gemini

8w7

8

7

So you add randomly or ..?

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Mohit

7mo

INTP
Libra

6w5

6

5

@Oryza Nop else i would end up like a freak i jst look into the bio n if i think they are interesting then yup i definately follow

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Oryza

7mo

ESTJ
Gemini

8w7

8

7

@Mohit Got it... 😊 Thank you for sharing

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Sebastian

6mo

INFP
Pisces

6w7

6

7

I browse but don't go into detail if we don't match since what's the point on reading on someone who may not even want to chat back

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Oryza

6mo

ESTJ
Gemini

8w7

8

7

Yup at least we have clue 😊

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Iz

7mo

INFP
Gemini

Wait....there r people that don't do this?

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🔮Dani🫀

7mo

ESTP
Virgo

2w1

2

1

Yeah I check the bio. Like if I see something REALLY odd or creepy I just decline the request.

Yeah I check the bio. Like if I see something REALLY <a href="/u/odd" class="transition linked-keyword" target="_blank">odd</a> or <a href="/u/creepy" class="transition linked-keyword" target="_blank">creepy</a> I just decline the request.

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Ty

7mo

INFP
Libra

5w6

5

6

80% of the time I check the bio and see if there's something to bounce off of

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Oryza

7mo

ESTJ
Gemini

8w7

8

7

Nice 😊

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Ty

7mo

INFP
Libra

5w6

5

6

@Oryza I have to say, for your age you look incredibly youthful. I'm impressed.

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Oryza

7mo

ESTJ
Gemini

8w7

8

7

@Ty Aw thank you, but I think camera effect also contribute something here😂😂😂

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Joshua M

7mo

INTP
Capricorn

3w4

3

4

It all depends what mood I'm in. Example before Spanking The Monkey I don't read bios. After I will go back and read them.

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Daniel

6mo

INTP
Scorpio

8w7

8

7

How to block people? Hehe

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☆★ 🄱🄴🄻🄻🄴 ★☆

6mo

ISFJ
Libra

6w5

6

5

The amount of people that use 'the scatter gun' approach?! 🙄 Mainly if you are new and they do not even read 🤓 your bio. Especially when you state, categorically, that you have particular criteria with/regarding certain matters 🤷🏼‍♀️ On other apps (solely dating ones) although, quite a few of those seem to be used for people to make friends too 🤗 I put a word that they must quote in their opening message to prove they have read my profile 📄

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Oryza

6mo

ESTJ
Gemini

8w7

8

7

Nice trick😁

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☆★ 🄱🄴🄻🄻🄴 ★☆

6mo

ISFJ
Libra

6w5

6

5

@Oryza Thank you ☺️

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Jacob

7mo

INFJ
Sagittarius

4w5

4

5

Yes but I don't let it stop me from accepting

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Oryza

7mo

ESTJ
Gemini

8w7

8

7

So you accept all the request?

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Jacob

6mo

INFJ
Sagittarius

4w5

4

5

@Oryza Pretty much

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Jez

7mo

ENFP
Aquarius

Fine, I GET IT -- I updated my profile already, GEEEEZ!

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Oryza

7mo

ESTJ
Gemini

8w7

8

7

Lemme check 😂😂

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