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Ola

4 days ago

ENFP
Leo
What's a pet peeve of yours that can be a deal breaker if your friend/SO does it?
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Love Dog

4 days ago

ENFP
Pisces

6w7

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AJ

3 days ago

ISTJ
Capricorn

3w4

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Constantly late without saying anything. I get that stuff comes up- I'm not sure why this gets twisted into guys claiming I expect something like a flawless attendance record, I'm not keeping that info on a clipboard. Just like... If you've got the chance to shoot a quick text, just like "Running late be there in 30min" or something so I know when it's appropriate to get concerned that maybe you got lost or abducted on the way over?? Although I have some friends who are constantly late to things and in my friend group we circumvent this by telling the late people an earlier time than the punctual people lol. So I guess it's not that much of a pet peeve for a friend, but for an SO there's just a different set of qualities I'm looking for. I'm the punctual variety, so I have an easier time with someone punctual.

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James

3 days ago

ENTJ
Leo

I said pretty much the same, I like how some people read meet at x to leave the house at x. Unless you live next door travelling takes time

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brit

3 days ago

INFJ
Taurus

5w4

5

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if they don’t shower on a regular basis.

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Isiah

3 days ago

INTJ
Scorpio

5w4

5

4

This! If I can smell your BO something is wrong.

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Emily

4 days ago

INTJ
Aries

5w4

5

4

Walking in the house with shoes lol

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Neibaf

3 days ago

INTP
Sagittarius

5w6

5

6

My socks drag much more stuff than my shoes, and I usually don't care enough to look for my slippers. If you had to picks shoes vs socks, what would be the "less worse" to you?

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Emily

3 days ago

INTJ
Aries

5w4

5

4

I don’t mind bare foot or socks, it’s outside shoes in the house that bother me

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Neibaf

3 days ago

INTP
Sagittarius

5w6

5

6

Interesting. You have asian ancestors or simply germophobic?

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Emily

3 days ago

INTJ
Aries

5w4

5

4

No Asian ancestry, my parents are German and it was a strict rule growing up, no shoes in the house.

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Neibaf

3 days ago

INTP
Sagittarius

5w6

5

6

Oh. So you kept that rule because...?

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Emily

3 days ago

INTJ
Aries

5w4

5

4

Outside shoes can carry in harmful bacteria like e.coli and viruses, as well as heavy metals. Not things I’d like on my floors, I try to keep them clean

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Edward

3 days ago

INFP
Taurus

1w9

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Neibaf

3 days ago

INTP
Sagittarius

5w6

5

6

So, rationalized germophobia it is. I get it, but you might as well build a decontamination airlock, because those don't stick only to shoes :l

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Neibaf

3 days ago

INTP
Sagittarius

5w6

5

6

Where I live, you don't take mud with you but I get the idea. It's not the same as putting your shoes in someone's face though, they remain on the floor that should regularly cleaned anyways. Obviously on a rainy day, it's still better to remove them before putting marks everywhere. Personally I don't like to wear shoes at home but it's for comfort reasons. If I don't plan to get out again after coming back, I'll remove them as well. When at other people's place, I ask what they prefer, but if I had a long sweaty day, I prefer to keep them to spare them stinky bombs :x

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Emily

3 days ago

INTJ
Aries

5w4

5

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I agree! 😊

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Neibaf

3 days ago

INTP
Sagittarius

5w6

5

6

Forcing me into a vegan lifestyle. I love animals, but I don't love all of them the same way :X

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James

3 days ago

ENTJ
Leo

Being consistently late without a good reason and without communication. Punctuality is a basic respect I give to anyone if not communicating an apology and new ETA. Things come up but let me know.

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H

3 days ago

INTJ
Capricorn

This 100%!

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H

3 days ago

INTJ
Capricorn

People who can't hold a conversation. For example you ask someone how their day was and they say "good" without asking a question back. It kills the conversation. To me it comes across a little self centred because they have no curiosity to learn about other people.

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James

2 days ago

ENTJ
Leo

Also 100%

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Alexander Cole

3 days ago

INFJ
Leo

Making promises and not following through.

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Sean

3 days ago

ENFJ
Virgo

Shoplifting

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