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Posted Saturday, May 3, 2025
21d
INFP
Cancer
Would you feel comfortable asking for health test results before getting physically close with someone?
I’m posting things about relationships, self-reflection, love and etc. and here’s what I’m also into - the mental and physical health, so… would you kindly ask your partner to share recent results for things like STDs before becoming more intimate? It’s not about distrust - it’s about care. For yourself. For them. For your peace of mind. These conversations might feel awkward, but they show maturity, self-respect, and emotional safety. So here’s the question: Have you ever asked? Would you? Or does it still feel “too much”? Let’s open this conversation gently 💭
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Syfudin
20d
INTJ
Leo
I actually pay every single time for health test results for every single woman that has the potential to be my spouse.
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Cody
20d
INTJ
Cancer
Anytime your discussing getting or becoming intimite with another human being you should as common courtesy let your partner know ahead of time is what I believe. As far as my mental health and physical health beyond anything having to do with STDs that is a whole entire different issue for me. as someone who normally does not see a doctor unless something is seriously wrong or I am on deaths doorstep already my overall health should not concern my significant other I am a firm believer in the idea of if I die then I die, morbid i know but I have already faced death once lady death or the grim reaper and I have a understanding that being death is inevitable when your number is up your number is up now do not get me wrong I would prefer going out fighting Everytime. hope that answers your question
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LJ
20d
ESTJ
Taurus
I do everytime. I oftentimes feel slightly awkward, but still discuss. It's important. I want to make sure that we're both okay. I've definitely experienced both the guy has gotten tested on a regular basis and the guy never been tested. I will say I have friends (both male and female) that have been careless. Ignorance is not bliss in my opinion.
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Rachel
20d
INFJ
Capricorn
Absolutely! You both need to make sure that you are on the same page. And, you need to protect your health.
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William
20d
ENFJ
Sagittarius
No, I guess I’d feel it would imply that I think the other person is promiscuous enough to pick up diseases. Kinda like how asking to make a prenup would be akin to implying the other person is in it for unsavory purposes. If I was asked, I’d totally understand. But, I believe I’m extremely tolerant to certain things compared to other people. But, i think that if another person was offended in such a way by that question, that would point out a red flag in them. Thoughts? I’d like to hear feedback.
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Ash
21d
INFP
No
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