I'm scared of guns I'm basically scared of anything that can cause harm or do danger but I don't think people shouldn't be able to protect themselves
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Ariel
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Cancer
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There's no "way" I'm afraid. It heals on its own but it takes time and during that time it just hurts. You can numb yourself with little distractions, you can cry your eyes out until you're cried out, you can do nothing and simply endure it but ultimately it will just take time to heal.
I'm very sorry I don't have anything more comforting to offer.
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Mocahontas
3mo
ISTP
Taurus
It's ok and thank you but I don't wanna cry I don't want my family seeing me cry plus I have a interview tomorrow I don't wanna have swollen eyes
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Ariel
3mo
INTP
Cancer
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@Mocahontas I understand, then, given the interview, my suggestion is to focus on the duty of the interview and let that overtake your emotions. It won't help with healing, in fact when you finally do let loose it'll probably be more intense, but at least you'll let your emotions loose at the moment of your choosing. It's a bit of a tradeoff, but it'll get you through your interview
I grab a icemocha go to the park sit at a bench and reflect on the decisions I made...and move on I believe there's better fish in the sea and dwelling is never an option not only it destroys u but dwelling ruins your character and ppl leave impressions and get influences and sorts. I wouldn't let a breakup or heartachebother u bc u could do better.
@Mocahontas are you still in game? Come in game we can talk little bit
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Mocahontas
3mo
ISTP
Taurus
@Javeed Ahmed ok
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Javeed Ahmed
3mo
ENFJ
Libra
2w3
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@Mocahontas okay I'm in game
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Javeed Ahmed
3mo
ENFJ
Libra
2w3
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@Mocahontas I'm waiting in game
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Carlos
3mo
INTP
Leo
Maybe I'm too materialistic but when someonebreaks my heart I spend a lot of moneybuying all kind of stuff only for me 😅😅😁 and I feel good for a while.
Oi lol weed 🤣 my dog doesn't wanna be held unless he feels like it than he'll get in my lap other than that he busy playing with my little sister dog's and all my friends are over sea but thank you
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Raj
3mo
ENFP
Taurus
@Mocahontas I think you got you know * whispers again* grease his paws * if you know what I mean
No, that can go in many ways but personally for me the best way to heal a broken heart is to not focus on the pain. Focus on the good times if you’re crying or whatever situation don’t cry because it’s over a cry because it happened and of course go hang out in your favoriteplaces go meditate or go take a walk on the beach or take a drive on the cityside for me. That’s like the best therapy you could say and of course listening to my favorite music. Anything it’ll help you not remind you of the pain. Trust me I’ve had my heart ripped out recently so I know what I’m talking about . If you wanna ask me more questions feel free.
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Mocahontas
3mo
ISTP
Taurus
Thank you
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Adrien
3mo
ISTJ
Aquarius
2w1
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Try a new hobbies, it will take your mind off what's bothering you
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Javeed Ahmed
3mo
ENFJ
Libra
2w3
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@Mocahontas I'm waiting in game
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Javeed Ahmed
3mo
ENFJ
Libra
2w3
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@Mocahontas I'm waiting in game
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Jay
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INTP
Virgo
6w5
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5
If you learn a technique that works, let me know. I could really use it
Posted Thursday, August 17, 2023
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What's the best way to heal a broken heart? What do you do maybe it'll help me 🤷♀️
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Finding yourself again is the most important part. A big reason heart aches hurt a lot least what I’ve experienced is that some of our identity is lost. So remembering who you are, what you like, and what you want and deserve is critical for the healing process 😊. It can take a long time, don’t worry though it’ll come
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Big 💯 on this answer. Relationships, whether you like it or not, redefines you when you’re in them. Once you’re out of it, I’d like to add that you need to do the work to figure out what went wrong. What you did and the other person. It’s important because that helps you understand what to look out for in your next relationship.
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Shooting range
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3mo
I'm scared of guns I'm basically scared of anything that can cause harm or do danger but I don't think people shouldn't be able to protect themselves
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3mo
5w6
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There's no "way" I'm afraid. It heals on its own but it takes time and during that time it just hurts. You can numb yourself with little distractions, you can cry your eyes out until you're cried out, you can do nothing and simply endure it but ultimately it will just take time to heal. I'm very sorry I don't have anything more comforting to offer.
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3mo
It's ok and thank you but I don't wanna cry I don't want my family seeing me cry plus I have a interview tomorrow I don't wanna have swollen eyes
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3mo
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@Mocahontas I understand, then, given the interview, my suggestion is to focus on the duty of the interview and let that overtake your emotions. It won't help with healing, in fact when you finally do let loose it'll probably be more intense, but at least you'll let your emotions loose at the moment of your choosing. It's a bit of a tradeoff, but it'll get you through your interview
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3mo
2w1
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Psilocybin
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3mo
What?
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3mo
2w1
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@Mocahontas magic mushrooms 🍄
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@Gordie oh naw
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just be strong & try to learn from it & just move on
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If it was that easy
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3mo
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@Mocahontas trust me , it is if you just put your mind into it
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3mo
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Replace the person who broke your heart
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Lol dang 🤣 I don't wanna rebound nobody though
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@Mocahontas if the feelings are real it's all that matters
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@Erin well can that happen
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The Beach and listen to the Wavess take your pain awayyyyyyyyy
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I could use the beach
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@Mocahontas it’s there waiting for yaaaaaaa
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@Mocahontas And they got some barsssss in case you feeelinnn froggyyyy.
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@Bubbii not Galveston lol I would rather go to corpus christi but Galveston is more convenient
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@Mocahontas never been out thereeee. And yes it is more convenient, usually I just go and listen to the waves. Don’t even get inn
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@Bubbii wait what?
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@Bubbii sounds nice though thank you
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@Mocahontas never been to corpus christiiiii….lmaooooo
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@Mocahontas anytimeeeee
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@Bubbii it's really nice like 3 years ago we rented a beach house there it was really nice
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time to grieve, and new experiences
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I can't cry
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@Mocahontas If you cannot let your guard down, you will hold the grief for a long time. I say this from experience.
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@Ⱥᵾⱦꝋꞥꝋᵯꝋᵾꞩ I don't wanna cry in front of my family
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@Mocahontas are you not allowed to leave the house?
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Immerse myself in creating art
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I grab a ice mocha go to the park sit at a bench and reflect on the decisions I made...and move on I believe there's better fish in the sea and dwelling is never an option not only it destroys u but dwelling ruins your character and ppl leave impressions and get influences and sorts. I wouldn't let a break up or heartache bother u bc u could do better.
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Thank you
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@Mocahontas welcome...
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Time
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Thanx
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@Mocahontas look you'll be fine in like a month or two. It's not as serious as you think I'm sure.
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Make friend and talk to them
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I could use a friend with good conversation that makes me laugh and stuff
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@Mocahontas yeah this I'm talking about
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@Mocahontas were you from
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@Javeed Ahmed Texas
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@Mocahontas oh really far 700 dollr Air ticket 😁😁
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@Javeed Ahmed lol where you from?
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@Mocahontas I'm from Pakistan
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@Javeed Ahmed oh okie
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@Mocahontas yeah so Play PUBG mobile?
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3mo
@Javeed Ahmed omw
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@Mocahontas give me id number I can add you ❤️
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@Mocahontas okay my in game name is STARxFuryfan
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@Javeed Ahmed okie 👍
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@Mocahontas I did send you please check I'm waiting in game
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@Javeed Ahmed logging on now
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@Mocahontas I'm waiting I saw your game
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@Javeed Ahmed I'm sorry about that
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@Mocahontas are you still in game? Come in game we can talk little bit
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@Javeed Ahmed ok
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@Mocahontas okay I'm in game
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@Mocahontas I'm waiting in game
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3mo
Maybe I'm too materialistic but when someone breaks my heart I spend a lot of money buying all kind of stuff only for me 😅😅😁 and I feel good for a while.
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Lol 🤣 I needed that laugh
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@Mocahontas it's a pleasure 😁
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Go shopping, meet some good people 🤷♂️
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I won't start work until after the 5th and I don't know any place to meet people
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I would say pet cuddling is a feel good cure for this if no pet there is always friends pet or *whispers * weed lol
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Oi lol weed 🤣 my dog doesn't wanna be held unless he feels like it than he'll get in my lap other than that he busy playing with my little sister dog's and all my friends are over sea but thank you
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@Mocahontas I think you got you know * whispers again* grease his paws * if you know what I mean
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@Raj lol ram you be token?
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@Mocahontas wait what?
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@Raj lol Raj* my bad
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@Mocahontas nah your good but do not forgot *coughs * the donation* to your dog for more cuddles because cuddles are life cuddles are love
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@Raj lol I'll hold him tomorrow
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No, that can go in many ways but personally for me the best way to heal a broken heart is to not focus on the pain. Focus on the good times if you’re crying or whatever situation don’t cry because it’s over a cry because it happened and of course go hang out in your favorite places go meditate or go take a walk on the beach or take a drive on the city side for me. That’s like the best therapy you could say and of course listening to my favorite music. Anything it’ll help you not remind you of the pain. Trust me I’ve had my heart ripped out recently so I know what I’m talking about . If you wanna ask me more questions feel free.
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Thank you
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3mo
2w1
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Try a new hobbies, it will take your mind off what's bothering you
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2w3
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@Mocahontas I'm waiting in game
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3mo
2w3
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@Mocahontas I'm waiting in game
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2mo
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If you learn a technique that works, let me know. I could really use it
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Time mends all things, but that takes a while so I recommend getting a hobby
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