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Universes

Posted Friday, April 11, 2025
15d
INTJ
Libra
I commented on a woman's post about men's inability to appreciate her based on qualities of herself that mattter more to her than what they matter to the man. I got blocked, but I learned a lot. I think I've inadvertently found the missing link.
This is something that a lot of men actually end up going through. Men like to think that the qualities they find within themselves to be attractive (kindness, compassion, hard working, etc.) are things that they believe will make them more interesting to the opposite sex. Men have come to realize that this is false - but as it turns out, women have the exact same probkem that we do in regards to that. Some people refer to the Yin-Yang concept when it comes to attraction. Men are more order-oriented while women tend to be chaotic - but if you look at what works and what doesn't when it comes to attraction? Women become more attentive and nurturing when they are around men who are more chaotic or in some cases downright dangerous and edhy in their behavior. When you see men or women operating closer to their true nature (men striving to achieve order from chaos, women creating chaos deliberately), things between them become unstabke abd suddenly, the pieces do not fit. But when the energy is reversed, and the men are chaotic and the women are nurturing? Things not only fall into place, but the one and the other start to see themselves in each other. -The love interest becomes a manifestation of the things that they see within themselves that they know and understand - and as we all know, most of us are accepting of our thoughts, behaviors and actions indescriminately the vast majority of the time, even if we are aware that they might not be good things. Thoughts?
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Kyle
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I think you need to work on this more. We are all made up of the opposing yin and yang spirits. Even when we are alone we are whole. Relationships may make you feel like you're delegated a role of one or the other but really it's about finding the balance between each other, while figuring out the balance of these within yourself. All different relationship types exist between these extremes and your nature can and will change through time, that is the very nature of yin and yang. Balance
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Sister Seychelle
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ENTJ
I appreciate everyone's point of view. I think the bad boy, bad girl persona is antiquated. I have learned a lot from past mistakes. I look for how well or not well a person treats others. I look for similarities to my interest and if they keep a sound mind and love of God. I never did go with the crowd or society's views on life. If I ever do marry, it will be a man who is not perfect but molded by the divine. Those are my thoughts. 😇
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Lovely
15d
ENFP
Pisces
You're too caught up in gender roles. Both are looking for someone to be kind to them and understand their daily stresses while being relatively attractive enough. If someone makes the first move to be kind enough to buy a coffee or send a free voucher for something they can get locally around them, even from a distance, it is something so highly underrated even as an online move. Is it really so bad to spend money on each other anymore? I feel personally like it would make me happy to spend money on strangers every so often. People gotta be willing to take more risks these days. I'm feeling more confident the more time goes by lately even if I meet some bad eggs.
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