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Posted Friday, October 18, 2024
22d
INTJ
Virgo
Which is most important to you, physical attributes or personality traits?
Thank you ALL for sharing โฅ๏ธ You guys are amazing, this comment section is ๐ฅ (edited)
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Jamie
22d
ISTP
Scorpio
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Balance is important Let's be realistic, if a woman doesn't take care of herself, the good personality isn't going to save her, and the same thing goes for a woman having a bad personality, being clean and taking good care of herself will not save her. There has to be a decent balance, and people need to be clean, it's that simple. I think a lot of people are unrealistic about what their preference is, because I don't think they truly understand all the variables in play here. Pair bonding is a very complex process to begin with, and it only gets even more complex as time goes on. First rule, culture does not transcend biology, the sooner one understands this, the better they will be at finding a partner in the first place, and the better they will be at keeping that relationship strong and solid. Second rule, the body knows exactly what to do, we just need to stop getting in its way, because it's by and large a chemical romance, culture is just an annoying mask we dress everything up in Third rule, understand his or her biology and you will be better at understanding what he or she truly needs at any given moment. This is essay material right here, it's deep and it takes practice, thought, and understanding. This may include mating performance, relationship skills and so on, but my times valuable, and I'm so hungry. Oh hey...look, I just accidentally gave everyone a tip, love is food and food is love. Lots of food, lots of love! Lol
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A๐งญ
22d
ENFJ
Personality, if my previous relationships are any indication ๐ However, I am pickier now, and consider both ๐๐คญ (Edit : Personality will still win but nice eyes and smile can't hurt ๐) (edited)
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Rebecca
21d
ENFP
Personality traits!! ๐ฉ๐ซ๐ญ
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Jaime Arroyo
22d
ISTJ
Gemini
Personally traits of course. Looks can diminish over time. Personally is forever and ever ๐ค๐ฅบ.
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Craig
21d
ENFP
Virgo
I suppose personality accounts for about 30-35% making it the most important of the two. With the remaining 65-70% being allocated towards mutually shared interests and hobbies. Physical attributes are basically of zero importance to me. Things like age, gender, race, culture, skin colour, et cetra, have absolutely zero bearing on match determination for me. When looking at a new potential match I typically only give the profile picture a summary scan before skipping over their bio and scrolling down to "Interests". There I look for the key important ones like "Gaming", "Outdoors", "Travel", "Gym", "Anime", "Movies", and "Technology". Then I'll look for secondary stuff like "Crafts", "Boardgames", "Badminton", "Painting", and a few others. Then if it mostly checks out I'll scroll back up and read their bio, and then scroll back down to read those three questions. Then if it's all good I'll acept their match request.
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Cliff
21d
INFJ
Scorpio
Honestly you need both, they work better together than separate. I think of the two as pieces of the whole. You can't have one without the other. It's all about balance. For me, anyway. (edited)
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Sam
21d
INFP
Taurus
Personality
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Amber
21d
INFJ
Pisces
Personality traits. Looks help. But looks also change. So do personalities. But those can always change for the better.
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Torin
21d
ISTJ
Cancer
As much as I want to say personality is all that matters, physical attraction is another key point. I mean obviously everyone has pointed out both are essential as you don't want a husk of a person with no personality either.
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Adam
21d
ISTJ
Capricorn
Realistically personality...but physical attributes gets you through the door.
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Jordan
21d
INTP
Libra
Looks open the door, but personality makes you want to walk through and stay. The right personality though? That makes them deeply attractive.
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Tiena
21d
ISFP
Pisces
Personality is more important to me because it is guaranteed that more than one day in my life, I will not look too hot. It's very likely I will go blind ... Or become permanently disabled. I would rather my partner treasure my personality than physically Because... Physical beauty can be temporary
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Jordan
22d
ESTP
Libra
I believe its equally as important. But personality traits also tie into physical attrivutes because i like women that are in shape. And if a woman is overweight that means she could be lazy or she just likes food. Or both ill have to decide that for myself. Which is why ill never reject a girl if they asked me out. To bad i never got asked out pr even approached me
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Dexterity
21d
INTP
Taurus
Personality. Beauty comes from within. Someone might not immediately appeal to you, but a great connection to their personality, will change that. This also goes in reverse. Attractive person, becomes much less so, when you realize their traits don't work for you.
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Branden
21d
INFJ
Cancer
Personality is what makes people who they are, not how they look. What truly matters is you. Looks are just a byproduct of what we think other people will like or don't like in some cases. But your personality is what is really important.
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Treavor
22d
INFP
Aquarius
Idk you could be the coolest chick in the world but if I'm not attracted to you it would never work. On the flip side you could be a bombshell but boring/antagonistic and I'd never talk to you in the first place Sooo both are important For the record I find a wide variety of women attractive so I'm not difficult to please ๐คฃ
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Phil
21d
INTP
Capricorn
Physical attributes is what draws me in but personality is what makes me stay (edited)
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James
21d
ENTJ
Taurus
If I had to pick one it would be personality because physical beauty only has so long of a life so you have to love what is under the skin to have a life long love.
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Shaheen
21d
INFP
Leo
Personality ofc but with a hint of good looks
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Joshua
21d
INTP
Sagittarius
Personality, you could be attracted to someone physically but once you learn what their personality is like through actions, it would be easy to lose interest and attraction.
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Meercraft
21d
ENFP
Aries
You can change your look, but you are who you are!
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Midoo
21d
ISFP
Virgo
I say both
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Aaron
22d
INFP
Sagittarius
As long as they're looking after themself physically (as in staying healthy), appearance doesn't matter. I'd rather someone who's compatible personality-wise to spend my time with.
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Matt
21d
INFJ
Taurus
They are of course both a big factor in attraction, but who a person chooses to be and how open they are. Will always matter the most. (edited)
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Dan
21d
ESTP
Gemini
You can't have one without the other. Personality keeps things going in the internally while physical keeps things going externally. Different people have different preferences in what they find attractive. Even if you have the most compatible personality traits if there's no physical attraction then it's all for naught as well.
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ral.
22d
ESTP
Capricorn
Personality, not only sentimentally but also socially.
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