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Which is most important to you, physical attributes or personality traits?

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Marie

Marie

22d

ENTP

Aquarius

7
6

You canโ€™t be with a total t r a sh person no matter how good they look, so obviously personality, looks should be acceptable, you shouldnโ€™t think your partner is u g l y neither

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Jamie

Jamie

22d

ISTP

Scorpio

8
7

1 Award

Balance is important Let's be realistic, if a woman doesn't take care of herself, the good personality isn't going to save her, and the same thing goes for a woman having a bad personality, being clean and taking good care of herself will not save her. There has to be a decent balance, and people need to be clean, it's that simple. I think a lot of people are unrealistic about what their preference is, because I don't think they truly understand all the variables in play here. Pair bonding is a very complex process to begin with, and it only gets even more complex as time goes on. First rule, culture does not transcend biology, the sooner one understands this, the better they will be at finding a partner in the first place, and the better they will be at keeping that relationship strong and solid. Second rule, the body knows exactly what to do, we just need to stop getting in its way, because it's by and large a chemical romance, culture is just an annoying mask we dress everything up in Third rule, understand his or her biology and you will be better at understanding what he or she truly needs at any given moment. This is essay material right here, it's deep and it takes practice, thought, and understanding. This may include mating performance, relationship skills and so on, but my times valuable, and I'm so hungry. Oh hey...look, I just accidentally gave everyone a tip, love is food and food is love. Lots of food, lots of love! Lol

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A๐Ÿงญ

22d

ENFJ

3
4

Personality, if my previous relationships are any indication ๐Ÿ‘€ However, I am pickier now, and consider both ๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿคญ (Edit : Personality will still win but nice eyes and smile can't hurt ๐Ÿ˜ƒ) (edited)

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Rick

Rick

21d

ISTJ

Taurus

9
1

Personality 100% true beauty comes from within the person. So many people fail to see that these days that its truly sad. Part of the reason so many relationships don't work out anymore if you ask me.

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Fable

Fable

21d

INTP

Leo

6
7

1 Award

Looks change and fade, but your personality is forever.

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Will

Will

21d

INTJ

Aquarius

Personality first, the person doesn't have to be a super model. Though I can't find them totally unattractive either.

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Laverne

Laverne

20d

INFP

Taurus

2
3

Iโ€™ve never been attracted to conventional good looks even if they have an ok personality. Personality needs to shine through in all its weirdness. Having ADHD has its benefits. (edited)

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Austin

Austin

21d

ISFP

Leo

6
7

Personality all the way. Could have the most beautiful person in the world but you wouldn't be happy if they treated you like shite 24/7.

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Rebecca

Rebecca

21d

ENFP

8
7

Personality traits!! ๐Ÿ˜ฉ๐Ÿ˜ซ๐Ÿ˜ญ

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Jaime Arroyo

Jaime Arroyo

22d

ISTJ

Gemini

8
7

Personally traits of course. Looks can diminish over time. Personally is forever and ever ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿฅบ.

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Mishka

Mishka

22d

ENTP

Gemini

3
4

Physical gets your foot in the door. Personality let's you all the way in and make yourself home

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Craig

Craig

21d

ENFP

Virgo

9
1

I suppose personality accounts for about 30-35% making it the most important of the two. With the remaining 65-70% being allocated towards mutually shared interests and hobbies. Physical attributes are basically of zero importance to me. Things like age, gender, race, culture, skin colour, et cetra, have absolutely zero bearing on match determination for me. When looking at a new potential match I typically only give the profile picture a summary scan before skipping over their bio and scrolling down to "Interests". There I look for the key important ones like "Gaming", "Outdoors", "Travel", "Gym", "Anime", "Movies", and "Technology". Then I'll look for secondary stuff like "Crafts", "Boardgames", "Badminton", "Painting", and a few others. Then if it mostly checks out I'll scroll back up and read their bio, and then scroll back down to read those three questions. Then if it's all good I'll acept their match request.

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Cliff

Cliff

21d

INFJ

Scorpio

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2

Honestly you need both, they work better together than separate. I think of the two as pieces of the whole. You can't have one without the other. It's all about balance. For me, anyway. (edited)

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Sam

Sam

21d

INFP

Taurus

Personality

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Michael

Michael

21d

INFP

Leo

9
1

Eh.....little bit of both๐Ÿคท

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Amber

Amber

21d

INFJ

Pisces

Personality traits. Looks help. But looks also change. So do personalities. But those can always change for the better.

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Torin

Torin

21d

ISTJ

Cancer

6
7

As much as I want to say personality is all that matters, physical attraction is another key point. I mean obviously everyone has pointed out both are essential as you don't want a husk of a person with no personality either.

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Adam

Adam

21d

ISTJ

Capricorn

8
7

Realistically personality...but physical attributes gets you through the door.

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Timothy

Timothy

21d

INTJ

Cancer

Personality traits, enough said. Sure, I'm an honest guy who admits that he is also attracted to a gorgeous female body, what man isn't? However, I know that personality traits in the long run last forever, and that's what makes or breaks a relationship.

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Jordan

Jordan

21d

INTP

Libra

2
1

Looks open the door, but personality makes you want to walk through and stay. The right personality though? That makes them deeply attractive.

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Tiena

Tiena

21d

ISFP

Pisces

8
7

Personality is more important to me because it is guaranteed that more than one day in my life, I will not look too hot. It's very likely I will go blind ... Or become permanently disabled. I would rather my partner treasure my personality than physically Because... Physical beauty can be temporary

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Bryan

Bryan

21d

INTJ

Cancer

9
1

For dating honestly both. I've been living a more healthy lifestyle lately myself so that made me a little pickier. but for friends definitely personality too often I've been burned by fake friends that only hang because you help them somehow. (edited)

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Jordan

Jordan

22d

ESTP

Libra

6
7

I believe its equally as important. But personality traits also tie into physical attrivutes because i like women that are in shape. And if a woman is overweight that means she could be lazy or she just likes food. Or both ill have to decide that for myself. Which is why ill never reject a girl if they asked me out. To bad i never got asked out pr even approached me

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Dexterity

Dexterity

21d

INTP

Taurus

4
5

Personality. Beauty comes from within. Someone might not immediately appeal to you, but a great connection to their personality, will change that. This also goes in reverse. Attractive person, becomes much less so, when you realize their traits don't work for you.

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Branden

Branden

21d

INFJ

Cancer

2
1

Personality is what makes people who they are, not how they look. What truly matters is you. Looks are just a byproduct of what we think other people will like or don't like in some cases. But your personality is what is really important.

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Treavor

Treavor

22d

INFP

Aquarius

9
1

Idk you could be the coolest chick in the world but if I'm not attracted to you it would never work. On the flip side you could be a bombshell but boring/antagonistic and I'd never talk to you in the first place Sooo both are important For the record I find a wide variety of women attractive so I'm not difficult to please ๐Ÿคฃ

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Phil

Phil

21d

INTP

Capricorn

2
1

Physical attributes is what draws me in but personality is what makes me stay (edited)

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Dylan

Dylan

21d

ISFP

Libra

And even mix of both

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Nana

Nana

21d

INTJ

Leo

8
7

Personality over everything else.

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James

James

21d

ENTJ

Taurus

2
3

If I had to pick one it would be personality because physical beauty only has so long of a life so you have to love what is under the skin to have a life long love.

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Shaheen

Shaheen

21d

INFP

Leo

8
7

Personality ofc but with a hint of good looks

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Joshua

Joshua

21d

INTP

Sagittarius

8
7

Personality, you could be attracted to someone physically but once you learn what their personality is like through actions, it would be easy to lose interest and attraction.

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Gvido

Gvido

21d

INFJ

Aquarius

And third option: That jawline

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Meercraft

Meercraft

21d

ENFP

Aries

You can change your look, but you are who you are!

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Bonnie

Bonnie

22d

INTP

Taurus

8
7

Physical attributes beats personality

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Midoo

Midoo

21d

ISFP

Virgo

I say both

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Aaron

Aaron

22d

INFP

Sagittarius

7
8

As long as they're looking after themself physically (as in staying healthy), appearance doesn't matter. I'd rather someone who's compatible personality-wise to spend my time with.

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Matt

Matt

21d

INFJ

Taurus

6
7

They are of course both a big factor in attraction, but who a person chooses to be and how open they are. Will always matter the most. (edited)

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Dan

Dan

21d

ESTP

Gemini

2
3

You can't have one without the other. Personality keeps things going in the internally while physical keeps things going externally. Different people have different preferences in what they find attractive. Even if you have the most compatible personality traits if there's no physical attraction then it's all for naught as well.

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ral.

ral.

22d

ESTP

Capricorn

5
4

Personality, not only sentimentally but also socially.

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