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Balance is important Let's be realistic, if a woman doesn't take care of herself, the good personality isn't going to save her, and the same thing goes for a woman having a bad personality, being clean and taking good care of herself will not save her. There has to be a decent balance, and people need to be clean, it's that simple. I think a lot of people are unrealistic about what their preference is, because I don't think they truly understand all the variables in play here. Pair bonding is a very complex process to begin with, and it only gets even more complex as time goes on. First rule, culture does not transcend biology, the sooner one understands this, the better they will be at finding a partner in the first place, and the better they will be at keeping that relationship strong and solid. Second rule, the body knows exactly what to do, we just need to stop getting in its way, because it's by and large a chemical romance, culture is just an annoying mask we dress everything up in Third rule, understand his or her biology and you will be better at understanding what he or she truly needs at any given moment. This is essay material right here, it's deep and it takes practice, thought, and understanding. This may include mating performance, relationship skills and so on, but my times valuable, and I'm so hungry. Oh hey...look, I just accidentally gave everyone a tip, love is food and food is love. Lots of food, lots of love! Lol
1y
Personality, if my previous relationships are any indication 👀 However, I am pickier now, and consider both 😎🤭 (Edit : Personality will still win but nice eyes and smile can't hurt 😃) (edited)
1y
Personality traits!! 😩😫😭
1y
Personality
1y
As much as I want to say personality is all that matters, physical attraction is another key point. I mean obviously everyone has pointed out both are essential as you don't want a husk of a person with no personality either.
1y
Personality is more important to me because it is guaranteed that more than one day in my life, I will not look too hot. It's very likely I will go blind ... Or become permanently disabled. I would rather my partner treasure my personality than physically Because... Physical beauty can be temporary
1y
Personality. Beauty comes from within. Someone might not immediately appeal to you, but a great connection to their personality, will change that. This also goes in reverse. Attractive person, becomes much less so, when you realize their traits don't work for you.
1y
Personality is what makes people who they are, not how they look. What truly matters is you. Looks are just a byproduct of what we think other people will like or don't like in some cases. But your personality is what is really important.
1y
You can change your look, but you are who you are!
1y
I say both
1y
Personality for sure, but attraction has to be there.
1y
Equal
1y
Well I'm not going to look at any of the comments I'm just going to say this I mean I have to be physically attracted just as much as the other, everybody does everybody finds something appealing and everybody finds things that are not appealing, that goes with everything I would imagine so what do you think of this comment to your comment
1y
I find myself leading towards Personality and loving their physical attributes later on "coughs in sapiosexual core"
1y
Looks are surface. Personality goes further.
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