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How to you overcome the contrast in yourself?

I know this current I do not the job I enjoy, i look new one over a year the toxic circle is, even i rarely get a chance to interview but I still hesitate when get interested from the company. I got a calling and accept join the interview tmr. I feel anxious again and not sure if I really need this job, i start to find a reason to tell myself that it may not this company which i fit ie i have to work 6 days/week and working hours longer than 8hrs also less paid than the current job. -- Have you ever be stuck like this? What chu do to across it? 😥😭

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I had a job that I loved, the team was great, the management always made us feel appreciated and the job itself made me feel worthwhile, like I had purpose. But then the management changed, the new manager changed the entire environment there. It was made clear that I didn't fit in with their vision of what their staff should be. They did what they could to make my life hell. I was the fourth person to leave out of 5, directly due to the treatment of this manager. I held on as long as I could because I loved the job and I wanted to make a difference.. but this took a horrendous toll on my mental health, to the point where I had a breakdown after leaving the house to go to work one day and basically locked myself away for almost a month. It continued to decline to the point where I was hoping and praying that I would fall asleep and never wake up. And when I did wake up, the first thing I would do is cry that I'm still here. After about 9 months on the sick, I handed in my notice. I had a number of sessions with a councillor, which did help a little, but it's still hard waking up. It took a few months to find a new job, it's not what I want to do, and the pay isn't great. But, the team is good and the management is understanding. I don't feel I have a purpose anymore, that was taken away from me.. But at least what I do is appreciated. Don't wait as long as I did, if where you are now is affecting you the way it affected me, get out before it does irreparable damage to your mental health. No amount of pay is worth that. Look after yourself.

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Just because you interview for a position doesn't mean you have to take it. If your current position turns out to be better at least you now know that it is for sure. Best of luck sweetheart 💓

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