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Posted Monday, April 3, 2023
1y
ISTJ
Virgo
Presence has to be > my Solitude.
Anytime I start to express interest in someone, and invest time in that person. I start to realize my window of "freedom" of being single slowly starts to close(which is a good thing). Then, something horrible happens, possibly a defense-mechanism; I start to question myself if this is what I want going foward. NOT the idea of getting to know someone & pursuing a committed relationship with that individual. But realizing after years of being single(by choice) I fell in love with my time & trusting no one but me, Im in my mid 30s, I have become extremely self sufficient with nearly anything that gets thrown at me, and Im proud of that. I can honestly say I jave everything I worked for(left one state to live in another, can say i bought my house & vehicles new, and everything around me) But at the same time, where Im at RIGHT now in my life, and what I had to do to get here, I realize im selfish & put myself in a mindset where I have to much to lose for anyone to pull the rug out from under me, especially now-a-days, alot of desperate people out there are merly looking for security. I want to meet someone, but my standards are at a point where, they seem "high" but society has its share of people who have no morals & values anymore. Self respect & honor are a thing of the past. Or im just getting old. π€·π»ββοΈ (edited)
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Yeah it does feel like society have lost it's moral and values. But hopefully it will change for the better, hard times are always coming but also better time afterward. Also please teach me how to achive what you achived, i need to be able to do things on my own and it is a struggle because the path is long, and i didn't even really begin to grasp it.
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