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Tracy

Posted Sunday, November 12, 2023

ISTP

Aries

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I'ma need y'all to stop

Stop with the constant complaining, stop with the repeated begging because you can't find love or you can't find someone to take care of you. You're adults. You're not helpless and you're not damsels in distress. Pull up your big boy/girl pants and take care of your doggone selves. The incessant whining, "poor me" attitudes, and victim mentality is precisely why you're unhappy. Life is what you make of it, and some of y'all seem to like being miserable. Pick yourself up, find your spine, and ffs use it Tough love session is over, now let the guilty parties yelling at me in the comments commence 😘

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Jay

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Virgo

In all honesty, I agree with you. It doesn't change the fact that the whole dating scene is completely one sided though. Any girl could make an account and get a match. Most of us men havent even found a match that can keep a conversation more than a word long, if we even found a match😂 I'm not whining about it, I'm looking for the one, not just any one. I'm patient. I'm just saying girls have the advantage😂

Andrew

ENTP

Scorpio

It’s simply a manipulation technique. Aw I’m a poor puppy dog come pet me etc

Moondoggy

INTJ

I noticed there is a lot more desperation going around the closer we get to the end of the year, been thinking about saying this, glad to see I'm not the only one

Liz

INTJ

Leo

I've been blocking them as I come across them, my block list is robust. It's really cleaned up my feed.

Dandan; Not Not Dan.. The Real Dan. What is a Dan?

INTJ

Capricorn

I'm sorry, Tracy. I won't do it again 😔

Colli

INFP

Gemini

Can you be my life coach? 😆❤️

Enrique

ISFJ

Sagittarius

Just came for the comments

Josh Miller

ENFP

Capricorn

Don't tell me what to do

Florian

INFP

Virgo

Agreed, especially the people who mask their misery as hostility towards the opposite gender or who expect stuff to be delivered to them on a silver platter without doing any effort.

Miguel

ENTJ

Honestly I don't know what's worse, the whines or the thirst traps. I guess the answer is whenever someone does both

Kaiza

ESTJ

Aries

You tell em!

Mademoiselle Amy

INFJ

Aries

the tribe has spoken. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

Henry Weir-Parsons

INTP

Aquarius

The world needs to apply this to like everything don't moan just make

Mademoiselle Amy

INFJ

Aries

@Tracy thanks for speaking on ‘our’. behalf. tell me you an aries without telling me you an aries. 💥💥💥💥

Eber

INTP

I felt the weight that this had on your chest.

Ben

ENFP

Capricorn

Told myself this today. As much as I do put myself down I think of what I have accomplished and will accomplish. I just need to get all my ducks in a row and make sure I'm living life to its fullest and not just taking up space. If you want change the only person that can do it is YOU!

Marius

INTP

Virgo

Take charge, people! Whining won't get you far, but a good dose of self-reliance might just do the trick.

Mity

INFP

Virgo

That's what I try to tell but It's not simple for everyone.

Seth

INTJ

Aries

I mean anytime you get on an app marketed for dating/matching you’re ALWAYS going to see a disproportionate amount of the disenfranchised speaking up loudly and with sadness. I think understanding this fact may make you more understanding rather than judgemental.

Ivan

ISTP

Leo

Where can i sign after every word here?

Kevin

ISTP

Gemini

Arin

INFP

Cancer

bruh wtf

Cait

INTJ

Scorpio

I never find anyone of quality on these sites because they are mostly desperate. Like... Desperation is the biggest red flag turn off you can do.

Umar

ESTP

Capricorn

Good thkng i never complain about my life always satisfied

Barry

ESTJ

Capricorn

You do realise that this is a dating app, right?

David

ISTP

Gemini

Thank you. I have 3 daughters. I don't need a 4th 👍

Peter

INFP

Capricorn

Ok that's it, I challenge you to a duel! I'm kidding. 😆

Lee

INTP

Sagittarius

Damn it's rough out here.

Ricky

INTP

Sagittarius

Wow I needed that tbh😁😎

Tina

INFJ

Aries

As unattractive as this behavior is, you stating it out loud isn’t really going to make much of a difference. People learn/grow in their own time at the level they are at. Anybody who has achieved to this level of maturity knows this and knows that’s not how growth works.

INTJ

Sagittarius

I haven’t ever had a girlfriend Tracy, and it’s getting really hard. Please consider me and we’ll be both wet with the tears of joy. From your posts i can honestly see that you understand me. I have been rejected so often, that now i know it’s been for a purpose. To meet you. Pleaee respond and hle me break out of the cycle of sorrow :/

Nomad

INTJ

Taurus

You came in this to throw fire at people. 😭😭😭

That Bitch

INFJ

Leo

🍿ready to traf coments

Hector

ENFP

Cancer

Man I’m just barely trying to get a foot at the door at dating haha but hell yeah im preaching those things you’ve said girl.

Amritesh

INTP

Libra

I needed to see this badly Wow! Thank you,Tracy 🙌

Tudor

INTP

Capricorn

YES!!! Somebody finally said it! Tracy, I don't know you, but you're my hero.

Dor

INTJ

Virgo

You gotta let go of trying to help/change everyone. focus on yourself and the few people that matter to you, you will find a partner on your level of self worth. Letting go of caring too much is your next step towards enlightenment 🫶🏻

Matthew Michael Smith

ENTJ

Aries

I honestly agree some of these people need to stop rushing I’m quite fine scrolling through a dating app maybe getting a couple connections here and there but people need to just be okay with not really dating I for one am still a virgin at 22 and never dated anyone previously and am in no rush to start dating someone or hop into bed with someone either people are just fake and it just seems to always be like that I guess they want to play the “oh pity me” card when they really don’t understand that the whole reason why they can’t match with anyone is because of there toxic behavior

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