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Posted Friday, August 12, 2022
1y
ENTP
Libra
Dating in your 20s
I once went out with a short king. He was handsome and fit and i felt lucky to have caught his attention. Skip forward a couple months, whenever he'd had a bad day he'd ask to have a voice call, and then he'd proceed to disrespect me and my (in his eyes) large forehead and play each comment off as a joke. I was okay with a little teasing so i figured maybe it was just his way of playing. Couple weeks later, the forehead comments grew to my ass, and later he said, "I'd like you better if you were shorter", I am 5,6! See by this point i was really getting sick of this mans behavior, so i told him i didn't appreciate the comments. After that he ignored me for a couple days. Unfortunately for him we hang around the same people and bumped into him the following Thursday. He then proceeded to act like there was nothing wrong in front of his friends. I am not that great of an actress so i said "hi and bye" and went back to my friends. Later that night he scolded me for having an "attitude". Words. Were. Exchanged... Needless to say i stopped talking to him right after. But we still bump into each other and being the grown woman i am, i still said hi and everytime he would act like i am going to infect him with Corona. Now my newest friend finds him attractive and wants to shoot her shot. But i am not sure if it's my place to inform her of the inner workings of our brief flirtationship, because A) He's actually a nice guy most of the time and B) She's about the same height as him.
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You don't want to keep it a secret or it may look like you were hiding that you used to see each other. You can just tell her he had an issue about height. You don't have to get into it if you don't want to. But there's a saying, "If someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time." This guy revealed himself to you in his actions. Just because he's nice sometimes doesn't excuse his awful behavior towards you. When people do stuff like that to one person they'll eventually do it to everyone in their life.
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1y
INFP
Capricorn
By what you described him so far, I can tell he has insecurity issues. you’re really pretty btw and your forehead compliments your face well! I would advice you to just inform her that you used to date him, so no misunderstandings happen.
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