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Posted Friday, August 2, 2024
1mo
INFJ
Gemini
❤️🧡To my ladies🧡❤️
What's the❤️ "red-est" ❤️red flag for you ? Personally,he checked all the boxes 😇too many boxes😂
Emotional immaturity
Bad listening
Comparison with exes
Avoid difficult conversations
Invest as less as possible
Too Feminine (u know what I mean )
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Ash
1mo
ISTJ
Capricorn
Most redflags are equally the worst in my eyes. Sob story super early, recent relationship within the last month more especially if they were supposedly the altruistic good guy and the other person wasnt (good people don't need to tell that story coz being good isnt based on stories), contributing poorly to relationship, actions don't match words, says theyre trying but doesn't change what they do, avoids important conversations, gaslighting, doing the bare minimum or not doing the bare minimum, seems distant for more than 3 to 5 days not long after relationships locked in, can't seem to make time, flirting with others (even if rationally explained like as part of a job or something), creating dreams of a future together within weeks, saying I'm the best person they've ever met within weeks, making me feel uncomfortable or unvalued, talks about there problems ideas or lives constantly but doesn't seem interested in listening to any of yours, doesn't seem to understand you, creates drama and arguments when u try to express what's important to you or your needs, makes staying appear to be the indicator of love over caring behaviour, expects of you but doesn't pull their weight eg Ur cleaning up after them all the time but they only contribute to creating mess and don't help clean. Lack of emotional intelligence or what I'm coining responsibility intelligence, terms of endearment is another (while many people use terms of endearment, most manipulators use them coz they can elicit familiarity and upliftment off the get go and use them on anyone, so if they call you sweetheart or beautiful right off the bat that is manipulative whether they are a manipulator or not) . Probably more but that's all I got off the top of my head. (edited)
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Icesis🇮🇶🇩🇪
1mo
ENFJ
Virgo
🤣🤣
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𐔌♯┆𝘋𝘦𝘣𝘣𝘺 ᴍᴇᴏᴡ .ᐟ ꒱ ⊹.
1mo
INFP
Libra
if i could pick 2 i would pick the first 2 but i feel like bad listening is js a total no from me ngl, i love being heard, and i love to talk, if a guy is js gonna ignore what i say or pass it like nothing without taking in consideration my emotions before responding then that's INSTANTLY a no and a buh-bye. and also personally i don't see an issue with a guy being feminine tbh, unless you mean something else and i'm not catching the hint, but feminimity in a guy doesn't make me any less attracted to him (maybe because i am pansexual but well wtv am i right), as long as the guy is nice and wholesome idrc if they're feminine or wtv ngl (edited)
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Albafica
1mo
INTJ
Taurus
Misogyny is an instant 👋
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Alex
1mo
INFP
Taurus
What do you mean "too feminine?"
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