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Ajax Winchester
Ajax Winchester

14d

ENTP

Taurus

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What do y'all do when you think someone is coming on too strong?

There isn't anything wrong with this particular conversation but it feels like he's pushing really hard to be more than what I'm looking for and I'm not trying to hurt him

What do y'all do when you think someone is coming on too strong?

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Ajax Winchester
Ajax Winchester

14d

ENTP

Taurus

9
1

Thank you, you guys! I'm so serious I really just don't know how to reapond in things like this. It honestly seems like he wants more than friends and that isn't my intention. He even kept calling me "queen" and I'm like "that's too much dude" so I guess just being clear and stating what I'm looking for is the best way to go about it

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Lucas
Lucas

14d

INFJ

Cancer

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3

It took me a while to learn how to walk this line (hell, I'm still learning) but if you don't have any future intention of reciprocating, or just don't feel the same way. You gotta be pretty blunt in my opinion. Momentary burn of the ego is much better than dragging a good person along 馃憣 (edited)

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14d

ENFJ

Virgo

8
7

Honestly it depends if they respect my 'No'...if they do we'll see about talking more but if not..blocked馃拃

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Jewel
Jewel

14d

ISFJ

Aries

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Set clear boundaries.

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Erika
Erika

14d

INFP

Leo

9
1

Though it might be difficult to do, being blunt it the best way, like Lucas mentioned, and as Greg mentioned if cleared boundaries are set and respected upon it shouldn't cause any harm or suffering or misunderstandings.

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Greg
Greg

14d

ENFJ

Aquarius

There are those people who yearn for genuine connections, and then those who want to push past simple friendships. It can, on occasion, be hard to articulate intent through text. If the person is good, and clear boundaries are set and respected, then perhaps there is no problem. But the boundaries must be clear, respected, and agreed upon

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Charles
Charles

14d

ENFJ

He seems genuinely interested in you. You know sometimes life gives you answers you don't want to hear. The question is when will you be ready? Life will almost never give you a the right moment. So instead of saying if my life is better or if I am in the right spot.... ask yourself no matter where I am in life will I be ok even if things go wrong? Decide what is best for you but don't expect life to give you a second chance. Time is the most valuable thing we all commonly share. Time is precious and time will run out. So stop waiting for the right moment because honestly no such thing. Remember you will be ok even if it doesn't work out.

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