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ISTP

Aries

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Bruh 💀

Some of y'all really like to get on this app, make no attempt at interacting with the community, then post about how nobody is responding to your cold dms as tho this place isn't full of ✨introverts✨ huh ***Edit to add*** For those who don't know what "cold dm's" are and are taking it to mean short responses or dry conversations, that's not what it means. It's messaging people you've never said a single word to prior to sliding into the dm's. They know nothing about you and you haven't made an effort to get to know them out here on the "public" side of the app which could potentially make them comfortable enough to talk privately, you're just jumping into strangers dm's expecting a conversation. That tactic might work on other platforms, but you can't be surprised when it doesn't work on an app full of introverts (edited)

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INFJ

Pisces

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"Why aren't there any nice girls who respond to my messagesssssss????" Because bruh, you only message girls with OF links and your whole game is "hi, you're pretty".

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ESTP

Pisces

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1y

INFP

Virgo

2
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They’ll blame anyone else but themselves for their lack of social skills. Same goes for those who keep their post and comments private. Just from the persons activity and thoughts on here I can get a better understanding of them but NO 😒

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INTJ

Aries

5
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I’m just not sure what I should say or post, I don’t share them in RL cause they’re either out of context or weird as hell, All my thoughts. Commenting is hard work too but DMing someone is nigh impossible, would they want to talk?, would they find me interesting? would they see it?, could it come out as creepy to DM someone who you don’t personally know? BUT I REALLY AM LOOKING FOR SOMEBODY TO LOVE AND LOVE ME 🥲

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1y

INFJ

Virgo

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Don't get me started on the 1 or 2 word replies. Like damn, make an effort please or don't hit me up. I'm introverted AF....I can't keep carrying every conversation 😂

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1y

ENFP

Aquarius

2
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I downloaded this app like 30 mins ago and this is the first comment section I go onto, I feel so attacked🤣

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ENTJ

Capricorn

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Tracy you always be coming with the facts. Sometimes talking with matches is like pulling teeth. Imma an introvert/extrovert and I work well under pressure so chatting and iniciating conversations is not that difficult to me, but my God!! Even I run out things to ask and I only be interested to the extent my attention is being reciprocated. Not expecting a reply right away but 3 days later with a hi im good is not good either. I went into rant out there 😅 but you guys get me drift .. we are on the app to get to know eachother or find that special someone sooooooo lets do that🤣🤣🤣🤣

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1y

ENFJ

Aquarius

I try to talk to anyone hell even miles away and try to be nice. The ones who do match with me give one word answers and it feels like you are talking to a wall. It makes you feel like worthless in a sense. Are the women here getting the same thing?

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1y

INTJ

Virgo

2
1

True story! And it's always the same people who reply to comments too!

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1y

INFP

Aquarius

This feels targeted lol

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2

1y

INFP

Virgo

6
7

You said it

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1y

INFP

Taurus

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1y

INTP

Libra

5
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Hahaha, so true 😂

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1y

INFP

Aries

This post had me cackling 🤣🤣

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1y

INTP

Sagittarius

8
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I would agree if not for the fact that most people here are introverted and won't want to post their lives online. I personally prefer talking one on one instead of posting "hey guys! OMG I'm so introverted pleeeeeaasse talk to meet 😭 😫"

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INFJ

Pisces

4
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Regarding your edit.... My profile says to not bother hitting like unless we have spoken on the boards. I then GAVE THEM INSTRUCTIONS for how to find my posts and comments and interact with me. Not a SINGLE GUY who slides into my requests has. Not one. And honestly, I would probably accept a message that said "I read your profile and I respect what you said but I was so interested in _____ that I was hoping you'll make an exception to tell me more".

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1y

INFP

Virgo

Yeah, the complaining gets really annoying in the long run. Like yeah, we get it, you don't like getting ghosted and such or nobody makes the first step on an introvert focused site.

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1y

INFP

Gemini

4
5

Halt, you’re hitting too close to home and making too much sense 😩

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1y

INFJ

I feel attacked. But also some people are just bad texters, and some don't even reply when I match with them, inexplicable.

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1y

INTJ

Taurus

6
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I have nothing but respect for this post. You're so dam right

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1y

INFJ

Gemini

2
1

Crazy isn’t it

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1y

INFJ

Pisces

I just got here lol

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1y

ESTJ

Libra

2
1

#realtalk I may as well be a turtle but once I pop my head out. Lol all bets are off.

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1y

INTJ

5
4

The Ricky Gevais gif totally sold this but yeah your totally right I will never understand "hi how r u" dm's only to get pissy when the conversation dies after 2 responses.

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1y

INFJ

Cancer

9
1

Lol, like everything worth a damn in life. . It's gonna take effort. Atleast chatting with people is fun for me so... minimal effort 🤣

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1y

INTJ

Gemini

3
4

The tinder user rizz 💀

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1

1y

INFJ

Scorpio

6
7

Thank you for this

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1

1y

INFP

Pisces

Hold up imma need to message you :)

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6

1y

INFP

Libra

2
1

First rule about Boo is that you don't talk in Boo (edited)

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1y

INFP

Libra

8
7

WAIT I'm supposed to interact and make an effort??? Booooo

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1y

ISFJ

Virgo

8
7

True, because the perspective starts at 'me' for most.

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1y

INTP

Cancer

For me it’s good start with a something in common If you have a good conection with the other person the conversation goes on

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1y

ENTJ

Aries

Coming from a guy's perspective, I've matched with over 30 women the past 3 months and got ghosted by all of them. This is why men are refusing to put energy in. ☠️

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1y

INFP

Cancer

1
9

Perhaps

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ISTJ

Leo

9
1

What business is it of yours if people do not want to post or do want to post on this app why would you care. Grow up and learn how to use block and block those that you do not like.

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Cancer

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