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Posted Monday, November 1, 2021
2y
INTJ
Cancer
I have gender dysphoria? Genderfluid?
Honestly, all those fancy names and descriptions confuse me a lot. Simply put, I have an all-female body, but I also have a "male soul" or ego as I call it, which I actively suppress (does not feel healthy btw). I feel 30% girl and 70% boy. Always been a tomboy, ever since birth. Never had a partner of either gender, nor any LGBT partner, so I think I have asexual tendencies? But I think with the right person (who would probably need to be the opposite of me? Or at least acknowledge and accept those percentages) I could open up to exploring sexuality. Anyone else feeling something similar to this? :/
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2y
ENFP
Gemini
Other people seem to have said this in much better ways already, but I’d like to agree I think some of this stress/pressure can come from societal expectations or from cultural stereotypes for each sex. If we didn’t have such rigid stereotypes for what a male and female looked like, you wouldn’t be struggling as much with feeling “male energy” etc - it would all just be you, and physical sex wouldnt have to potentially change to match the energy you felt inside. While I do think gender dysphoria does exist, I think cultural stereotypes impact us more than we expect, and sometimes we have to realize it’s perfectly ok to just be you. You don’t have to look like or be a certain sex to feel or behave in a certain way - a lot of that is cultural brainwashing we’re trying to get away from! (How we’re trying to get away from ideas behind things like toxic masculinity, for example, where typically society claims males are more stoic, less feeling, etc. That is certainly not inherently true at all, but culturally we’re often groomed to think that way)
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2y
ENTP
Aquarius
Females can be masculine and males can be feminine. Suggesting that someone is maybe not "really a woman" because she's feminine is so goddamn backwards. It's hilarious how it's considered woke and progressive. You can be a fairly masculine woman, I am one too, it's okay. You don't have to fit the stereotype.
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6mo
INFP
Gemini
I call it "tompure". A woman who represents purity. As in, gender equal tribes look like this. Exactly like this. Nothing less. But instead, for those who succumb to the advertisements and the peer pressure, to make women appear like the image put upon them by the society… The patriarchy. That is the truth. (which is all money driven, by the way 🤫) (edited)
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6mo
INFP
Gemini
By the way, I appreciate your appearance and the bravery to show your true self. Good job to you. Right on.
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