@Maddy I feel your pain. Sometimes, I wonderif we attract narcissists because we give so much. I spent 15 years with my partner. When I finally asked him if he could give me the same level of adoration I gave him, he said, "I'm too selfish to, I'm sorry." My world crumbled.
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Maddy
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INFP
Libra
@𝓗𝓸𝓷𝓮𝔂 👸🏾 ugh. I'm so sorry 😞 I think you're right. We need to lookout for each other ❤️
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Christy
3mo
ISFJ
Leo
I wishthat people cared about me as much as I care about them. When I love someone I'm all in, whether it's a friendship or a romanticrelationship. I have so much passion in my heart that I want to share but I don't want to give all my passion away and not get some back in return.
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𝓗𝓸𝓷𝓮𝔂 👸🏾
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INFJ
Libra
7w8
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I completely agree! I'm the exact same way. I even had to let go of a friend from middle school. I would dropeverything when he was in distress. When I had the rarebreakdown, he'd tell me he'd call me back and didn't call me again until he had anissue.
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Christy
3mo
ISFJ
Leo
@𝓗𝓸𝓷𝓮𝔂 👸🏾 I have a friend like that. He's a friend that I met on an onlinedating site. We became pen pals since he is from Colombia. I have always been a shoulder to cry on when he was going through his father's death, breakups and school. Even now he knows that he can count on me to be his "wing-Girl" 😂. But if I have things I have to get off my chest or I tell him I'm upset he doesn't have the same energy for me. Maybe it's because he is a man, idk but he is definitely not there for me for emotionalsupport. I might be asking too much of him. We've been friends for two years now.
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𝓗𝓸𝓷𝓮𝔂 👸🏾
3mo
INFJ
Libra
7w8
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8
@Christy What?! Man or not, he should be giving you the same energy! You deserve the energy you give out! I hope you find people like that soon. 🫂 💖
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Alyssa
3mo
INFJ
Gemini
5w4
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4
True. Like you've always been there for people you care about and I do it because I want to. At some point, I wish people can do the same. But it always leads to disappointments so I just don't dwell on it too much.
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𝓗𝓸𝓷𝓮𝔂 👸🏾
3mo
INFJ
Libra
7w8
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8
Absolute facts! A lot of people don't appreciate people like us, and it's sad. I like that you don't dwell in it 😊.
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Icesis🇮🇶🇩🇪
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ENFJ
Virgo
8w7
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7
I might not be a Libra but I care about his/her boundaries starting off as friends because I want our compatibilty to be rooted in trust & respect🙏🏻💯
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John
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ISTP
Capricorn
Rage want to talk
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The person you are right now, is the person you would have felt safe with as a kid
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This is so true! Your comment was like a warm hug. I appreciated it 🫂 💖
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YES. Both with friendship and love life.
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Always. Then we get sad because people don't treat us how we treat them. 😔
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@𝓗𝓸𝓷𝓮𝔂 👸🏾 I feel this all of the time with my husband. I dote on him but when I need help it's like pulling teeth.
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@Maddy I feel your pain. Sometimes, I wonder if we attract narcissists because we give so much. I spent 15 years with my partner. When I finally asked him if he could give me the same level of adoration I gave him, he said, "I'm too selfish to, I'm sorry." My world crumbled.
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@𝓗𝓸𝓷𝓮𝔂 👸🏾 ugh. I'm so sorry 😞 I think you're right. We need to look out for each other ❤️
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3mo
I wish that people cared about me as much as I care about them. When I love someone I'm all in, whether it's a friendship or a romantic relationship. I have so much passion in my heart that I want to share but I don't want to give all my passion away and not get some back in return.
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7w8
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I completely agree! I'm the exact same way. I even had to let go of a friend from middle school. I would drop everything when he was in distress. When I had the rare breakdown, he'd tell me he'd call me back and didn't call me again until he had an issue.
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@𝓗𝓸𝓷𝓮𝔂 👸🏾 I have a friend like that. He's a friend that I met on an online dating site. We became pen pals since he is from Colombia. I have always been a shoulder to cry on when he was going through his father's death, breakups and school. Even now he knows that he can count on me to be his "wing-Girl" 😂. But if I have things I have to get off my chest or I tell him I'm upset he doesn't have the same energy for me. Maybe it's because he is a man, idk but he is definitely not there for me for emotional support. I might be asking too much of him. We've been friends for two years now.
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3mo
7w8
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@Christy What?! Man or not, he should be giving you the same energy! You deserve the energy you give out! I hope you find people like that soon. 🫂 💖
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3mo
5w4
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4
True. Like you've always been there for people you care about and I do it because I want to. At some point, I wish people can do the same. But it always leads to disappointments so I just don't dwell on it too much.
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7w8
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Absolute facts! A lot of people don't appreciate people like us, and it's sad. I like that you don't dwell in it 😊.
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8w7
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I might not be a Libra but I care about his/her boundaries starting off as friends because I want our compatibilty to be rooted in trust & respect🙏🏻💯
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Rage want to talk
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