ipam

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ENFP
Aquarius

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Do men cry?

Normalize men cry, normalize that they sometimes need a shoulder to rely on too. Men have feelings, they can be sad and being emotional as well. Speaking about which, do you hate emotional people? Do you hate someone who always takes everything with emotion?

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Mister A

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INTJ
Virgo

4w5

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It's a trap! Lol Just don't do it in front of a female you're romantically interested in; you've been warned. If you just have to do it and need attention, do it with the bros.

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Anantaa

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INTJ
Aries

8w7

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Oh good lord, here we go again.

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Debra

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ENFP
Pisces

1w2

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Hey I would rather see a man cry when life has him by his testicles. It doesn't mean your weak, and if I have to be the one there to pull him into my arms a let him cry, I will be there.

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Jay

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INTP
Aries

If a woman who you're involved with leaves you because you cry in front of her then she's wasn't really worth it in the first place.

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Dovud

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INTJ
Virgo

9w1

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Everyone should cry. Crying is good sometimes. And hating people who are too emotional is not appreciated by me😬

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Scott

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ISTP
Gemini

1w9

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Yes, men cry. I don't hate emotional people, but I try to avoid people who get overly emotional because they tend not to be able to control their actions when they're emotional.

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Masha

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INFJ
Capricorn

9w1

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Men=humans, so yes, it's normal. Expressing ur emotions is normal. Why is it normal to laugh, but crying is taken as something shameful? I'm not talking about the extremes, but if we take a normal average person, why should that be a problem? Men go through the same things as women, sometimes even more pressure, so why do they have to hide? It's not a sign of weekness, it means you are human and you care. It shows you are vulnerable, and if you do it in front of someone, it requires lots of courage. Being vulnerable doesn't mean you are weak. As humans we need to accept both our feminine and masculine sides whoever we are. There's nothing wrong with that

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Debra

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ENFP
Pisces

1w2

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I agree and with the higher pressure the rate of men suicidal death is higher the females, but females have a higher rate of attempted suicide.

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Joao

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INTJ
Virgo

8w7

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A real men is not afraid to show his feelings just because of what the preconditions society forced upon him, men do cry and that does not make them weak!

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Grey Wyvern

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INFJ
Leo

2w3

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A real man? That stung to read. And what if I AM afraid to show my feelings through tears? What it I am not even capable?

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Joao

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INTJ
Virgo

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@Grey Wyvern To me just means you need to develop yourself and get in order with your feelings it is not okay to bottle everything up and carry it just because you were brainwashed into thinking that is what you should do i do not use the phrase "a real men" as a way to cast prejudice or judgment upon a person but as to describe a person of the male gender that is in touch with himself that is "complete" per say, I hope I was able to clarify.

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Jay

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INTP
Aries

@Grey Wyvern Like Joao said. You shouldn't be afraid to show your emotions. You're human, man or not you're entitled to feel things and being born a man shouldn't change that. Let go of the idea that you have to be strong all the time.

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Hamid

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INFP
Capricorn

1w9

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I’m emotional but I’ve learned that while respecting my emotions I also need to use my mind and reason. To cry is to express your feelings and to feel is to be human and last time I checked we men are human. So I don’t see a problem with men crying and I try to normalize it all the time

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HeyhoGray

3mo

INFJ
Virgo

Men should cry! Why shouldn't we? We are human beings and the meaning of being strong is so outdated. Show me if you have something you worrying about! Dont hesitate to cry in front of someone. I'm very emotional. I would love to have a boyfriend someday who don't hesitate to show his feelings.

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Kelly

3mo

ENFP
Sagittarius

I love passionate emotional men.

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Konstantin

3mo

INFJ
Leo

2w1

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The fact that we can cry means that it serves a very specific purpose for our body. From a evolutionary perspective, it is a feature of our body that increases our survival. Perhaps it is the mechanism that calms a hunter after a near death experience, or, more abstractly, the mechanism that which releases the emotional burden one faces. The rules that tell us not to cry are superficial. The rules that tell us to cry are anchored to our survival, it is something made for us to do.

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Wynn

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ENTP
Virgo

3w2

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Here some issues that arises abt this topic. Ppl want men to show emotions but it can be a double edge. Some of their partners get turned off, they lose confidence or they look at their men differently. This is why some dont show their emotions becus ppl will turn it against them or think of them unfavourable. Its a wacky world we live in. If ppl hate emotional people, then men showing their softer side put themselves in a spot.

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Moasa

3mo

INTJ
Leo

2w1

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Yeah. I'm agree

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Mattéi

1mo

ENFP
Taurus

6w7

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By my side, I literally stopped crying in 2017 after an "event" i won't talk about But to be honest, it's not because I'm not able anymore to express it that it's not happening inside, and I really, really miss my body to allow itself to do #broken 😅

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Traci❤️🤍🔐🤎

1mo

INTP
Gemini

9w1

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Lol so men can cry😁

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Mattéi

1mo

ENFP
Taurus

6w7

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@Traci❤️🤍🔐🤎 of course

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Traci❤️🤍🔐🤎

1mo

INTP
Gemini

9w1

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@Mattéi love to see you cry☺

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Mattéi

1mo

ENFP
Taurus

6w7

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@Traci❤️🤍🔐🤎 haha, as I said, since 5 years, not possible anymore. But I'd like to

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Traci❤️🤍🔐🤎

1mo

INTP
Gemini

9w1

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@Mattéi will see

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Anantaa

3mo

INTJ
Aries

8w7

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So glad you said it. Men really have to bear so much weight on their shoulders and stay quiet despite it all. I do not have emotional people, rather I believe that emotions are just as important as logic, sometimes even more important than that.

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Travis

3mo

INFP
Scorpio

I'm not against fellas crying it's a natural emotion. I just hate doing it around anyone would have to be pretty sloshed for that to happen. And don't want it to be weaponised against me in the future depending on who would see it. I also don't hate emotional people just too socially awkward to know what to say or do. Don't know if they want the pat on the shoulder or not.

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Viva🌌

3mo

INTJ
Aries

4w5

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I get this. I'm getting much better at the support thing but sometimes it's awkward (not if the person is close to you)

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Joshua

3mo

ISTP
Virgo

9w1

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Yes and appreciate it because you don't know how much it hurts not to be able to cry. No physical pain, death, song, heartbreak, etc... not a single tear for more than 8 years. It takes real strength to cry.

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Josh Holiday

3mo

ESFJ
Aries

Did I cry when I was sexually abused, bullied, etc. No, because "why should a man cry, they don't have feelings". I didn't want people to know I was sensitive. I hate it so much.

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