Antonella

Posted Monday, May 22, 2023

11mo

ESFP

Leo

3

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What is the best advice you were given?

What is the best advice or advices someone gave to you? That piece of knowledge that change your mind. I have three that I really really enjoy and they are somewhat quotes as well. The first one is that "Even a broken clock is right twice a day". This felt so powerful to me in the moment as it is a way to show you are powerful, you are actually right and needed and loved. The second one says: "Every time you are tempted to react in the same old way, ask if you want to be a prisoner of the past or a pioneer of the future.” This definitely helps me every time I need motivation. Last but not least, it really helped me to heal when I understood to "not take it personally, we are all heros and villains in other people's story". No one is inherently bad or inherently good. Most of the time it relates to perspective and the way they are, relate and act sometimes is because of their own trauma and not because of YOU. THIS DOESN'T MEAN WE NEED TO ALLOW BAD BEHAVIOR towards us but it means WE CANNOT TAKE IT AS OURS because it is not. It's very likely that people are projecting their own traumas and insecurities. Recognize it as such and don't own it as "the truth" Happy Monday!