Ghosting. Why does it happen? Is it because one is shy to say something to let the other person know it's not working for them? Or since there is no effort at all just wanton disregard since they got it for free anyways. It's never easy to let people down. Just be straightforward. How one treats people is a reflection on ones character and breeding. It all boils down to common decency and respect. Don't feel bad if someone ghosted you. Be GLAD, you just didn't dodge a bullet, you dodged a CANNON BALL! You don't want that kind of haunting in your life.

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