People often avoid pain hoping to escape its sting, but in doing so, they might lose their way. When we stray too far from discomfort, we might miss the lessons it offers. Facing pain can help us find clarity and purpose, even if it's tough.

#writing

Vinay Krishna

21h

INFJ

Libra

Into the stillness I quietly fade, Where secrets are safe and heartaches are made A silent retreat from the world's loud din Where peace and calm, softly step in

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Sonny

INTJ

Cancer

Change your narrative from "Why does this keep happening?" to "What is this teaching me?"

This simple shift in thinking can transform your life. It encourages a mindset that focuses on learning and understanding rather than feeling stuck or frustrated. This way of thinking helps you see challenges as opportunities to gain wisdom, rapidly increasing your development.

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Marco

ENTJ

Gemini

Searching outside advice

I'm 26 recently separated and have a 3 year old. I've done alot of self reflecting lately and came to conclusion I have nothing to show for since I've been out of high-school besides my 3 year old who I love to with all my heart. Lately I've been considering joining the navy to get some structure... read more

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MD🐺

ENTJ

Scorpio

Life changing books?

• 12 rules of life; An Antidote to chaos (By Jordan B. Peterson) • Good To great.

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Sonny

INTJ

Cancer

Fear often holds us back more than failure ever does.

It keeps us from taking risks and trying new things. While failure is just a part of learning and growing, fear can stop us before we even begin. Many people miss out on great chances because they are too afraid to take the first step. It's important to recognize when fear is standing in our way... read more

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Sonny

INTJ

Cancer

Breaking the Lazy Cycle

Start small. Wake up earlier. Make your bed. Complete one task you've been avoiding. These tiny actions build momentum. They prove to yourself that you're capable of more than you think. Your potential is massive, but it remains locked until you decide to unlock it.

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Yenny

INFP

Cancer

Recognize

Agree, i feel like that.. (edited)

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Raj

ISFJ

Never trust words

#mentalhealth #advice #life

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Raj

ISFJ

💯

#life #lifelessons #mentalhealth

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Sonny

INTJ

Cancer

Your Life, Your Responsibility

No one else can live your dreams for you. Only you can push through the resistance. Only you can transform potential into reality. Laziness is a choice. Hard work is a choice. Which one will you pick?

#writing

Vinay Krishna

22h

INFJ

Libra

Beneath the surface, where emotions silently roam Secrets are concealed, in the depths of the heart's dark home Some truths are too fragile, to be spoken or revealed And so they remain hidden. forever concealed

#writing

Vinay Krishna

23h

INFJ

Libra

Fear's dark shadow looms near Tomorrow's unknown brings only fear I search for strength a glimmer of light To face the dawn and make it through the night

#books

Mirabel

INTJ

Pisces

My second favourite book

After a really long drag, I was able to complete this book. Jay is absolutely amazing both in the book and podcast. These life lessons are worth reading any number of times. The book felt peaceful and purposeful and stands true to the word. Such a nice read that feels like being in a serene place... read more

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Sonny

INTJ

Cancer

Break free from inactivity, and you’ll uncover the wins that have passed you by.

Laziness is a silent dream killer. Every time you choose comfort over effort, you're throwing away potential success. Your goals don't care about how tired you feel or how comfortable your couch is. They wait for action.

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Tejas Patel

ISFP

Pisces

Not everyone will understand you. That's Life! Har Har Mahadev 🔱🙏 #life #Mahadev #lifeadvice

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Lewis

17h

ISTJ

Aquarius

Rudness

People come across as so rude on here.. why bother matching.. if 1) you're just gonna ignore or 2) just be plain stand offish in chat...

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Vinay Krishna

INFJ

Libra

Trapped in a life that's not my own Emotions suppressed a heart of stone Longing to be free to love and to cry But fate has other plans and I wonder why

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Sonny

39m

INTJ

Cancer

The right opportunity will arrive unannounced.

Sometimes, the right moment arrives without any need for us to seek it out. When we're ready, life presents us with what we need at just the right time. When we stop trying to control every outcome, we often find that things fall into place on their own. By letting go of the need to control every... read more

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Taylor

ENTP

Libra

Going to bed earlier

It's like I'm afraid of going to bed too early. My theory is because my stepdad was so adamant about me getting to bed early. I always felt something was being hidden from me. Or that something might happen to me once i fell asleep. But I'm tired of sleeping til noon every day. Anyone kinda have... read more

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Sonny

59m

INTJ

Cancer

Save your energy.

Sometimes, it's best to save your energy rather than trying to explain things to people who aren't open to understanding. When you encounter such situations, focus on your own experience and let it sink in. Reflect on what you've learned and how it affects you. Then, gently let go and continue... read more

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Vinay Krishna

INFJ

Libra

Crafting a heart from shattered glass,l A delicate, futile task, that will forever last Trying to build a future, with one who cannot see The beauty of my present, and the fragility of me

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Elizabeth

21d

ENFP

Aries

1 Award

Age shamed

I got “age shamed” on here for being 40. The way I see it? Getting older is a privilege that we are not all awarded NOR is it a guarantee. The best part? He was 35 🤣. May we all be given the privilege and have gratitude for each day given. May you all age gracefully, healthily, safely and most of... read more

367

105

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Vinay Krishna

INFJ

Libra

Tears fall like ink on a page so worn A heart once full, now empty and forlorn In poetry's silence, I hear my soul's sigh A lonely echo that whispers "why"?

#writing

Vinay Krishna

INFJ

Libra

When someone said "Foolish of me to believe that my countless drop of love could fill your ocean of expectations" . My heart wrote . Infinite drops of love I've shed A futile attempt to fill the depths ahead Your ocean is a vast expectations wide My love's small waves could never be your tide

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Simran

29d

ENTJ

Cancer

2 Awards

8 Letters

You know me the best, You know my worst, see me hurt, but you don't judge That right there is the scariest feeling Opening and closing up again I've been hurt, so I don't trust Now here we are, staring at the ceiling I've said those words before, but it was a lie And you deserve to hear them a... read more

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Sonny

INTJ

Cancer

Being alone is not boring, it's therapy.

It allows you to tune into yourself without distractions. It's a time to recharge and connect with yourself on a deeper level. Solitude can be a powerful way to understand who you are and what you need.

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REd

26d

INTP

Sagittarius

😙

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J J Jaxy ❌🐻

INFJ

If someone intentionally tests you

As a loyalty check, to measure your commitment to them- They do not value your happiness.

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Vinay Krishna

INFJ

Libra

Suicide is not a self destruction It's a disguised murder commited by society

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Bea

1mo

INFP

Scorpio

3 Awards

For anyone needing to hear this

187

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Dale Marcella

INFJ

Aquarius

My 3 simple rules

I live by 3 simple rules: love needs action. trust needs proof. sorry needs change. these three rules are a powerful reminder that relationships, whether romantic, familial, or platonic, require effort, commitment, and accountability from all parties involved. the first rule, "love needs action,"... read more

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Dale Marcella

INFJ

Aquarius

Your presence is enough❤️

In my darkest moments, I don’t need solutions or advice. What I yearn for is simply human connection—a quiet presence, a gentle touch. These small gestures are the anchors that hold us steady when life feels like too much. Please don’t try to fix me. Don’t take on my pain or push away my shadows.... (edited) read more

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Shayde (Chaos) 👑💋

25d

INTJ

Gemini

1 Award

TRUTH 💯💯💯

For all you precious newbies. No one means what they say on here most of the time. You could be talking to someone and totally vibing one day and then they disappear the next day or is a complete and total piece of shyt. The good thing about that though is... When someone deletes themselves, it... read more

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Snigdha 🧿

26d

ISTJ

Sagittarius

🧏🏻‍♀️

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Mithu

25d

INFJ

No Limits, Just You: Overcome and Thrive

Sometimes life gets tough, and you might feel distracted, insecure, unmotivated, or even lonely. But remember, the most powerful thing you can do is push through those moments. Do the things that make you feel whole, that bring you back to yourself. Even when you don’t feel like it, even when it... read more

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Cece

14d

ESFJ

Libra

Type yes if you agree 😉

You could be the best person physically, spiritually, emotionally, with impeccable communication skills, loyalty, love, and much to offer. But that still won't make the wrong person commit. Commitment comes from readiness and personal choice.

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Heather (Il Grinch 💚)

11d

INFJ

Capricorn

When you have only one choice to go on...

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Sonny

INTJ

Cancer

“Don't climb a mountain for the world to see you. Climb a mountain for you to see the world.” - Unknown

It’s not about showing off to others but about discovering new perspectives for yourself. When you reach the top, the view can offer insights and reflections that are uniquely yours.

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🌀𝕊𝕡𝕒𝕔𝕖 ℂ𝕒𝕕𝕖𝕥🌀

ENFP

Scorpio

Lust leads to nothing but emptiness

Control it as soon as you can and watch how you will improve

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Jeffrey Wolfe

ISTP

Capricorn

Men here is a little tip

A beard says to the ladies if I'm too lazy to shave my face imagine what the parts I keep covered with clothes look like

It's okay to cut dead weight.

Lifeadvice Community

It's hard at times because people show you one thing in the beginning and another thing towards the end. Mfs will surprise you. That's why I agree with cutting dead weight also.

I was just thinking about this... Thanks for the push

I always trust my instincts. Even if the person hasn't done anything...if their energy is off their energy is off

Yes. And Stop overthinking. Read that again

Some people aren't meant to be in our lives forever. You must constantly evaluate your friendship, who are you allowing to speak in to your life and bring you down

Sorry to hear about your lost

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