"He seems nice, you should likehim."
That implies if I don't like him, I am perpetuating the message guys need to be bad to be liked. But that's nottrue. It's that being nice is insufficient condition. I'm a human too, I can have my own set of preferences of whom I like or dislike.
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Being nice is like bare minimum. It doesn't give rights to anything, especially for datingsomeone. Even if someone is nice, it doesn't mean they would be a compatible partner. I wish more peoplesaw it that way...
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Let's stop using nice as a reason to be loved
"He seems nice, you should like him." That implies if I don't like him, I am perpetuating the message guys need to be bad to be liked. But that's not true. It's that being nice is insufficient condition. I'm a human too, I can have my own set of preferences of whom I like or dislike.
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Being nice is like bare minimum. It doesn't give rights to anything, especially for dating someone. Even if someone is nice, it doesn't mean they would be a compatible partner. I wish more people saw it that way...
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It's too bad you don't want to perpetuate a falsely idealized perception of reality. I guess I'll just have to take this super adorable guy right here and very slowly walk away..... If it helps, he can be good or bad. The world may never know 😁
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In the sense of friendship I disagree with you. But for deeper friendship and SOs I agree.
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