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Kat

13 days ago

ESFJ
Aries

2w1

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Remember, his actions are the best guide you have as to how he feels about you.

Pay twice as much attention to how someone treats you than what they say. Anybody can say they love you, but behavior doesn’t lie. If someone says they value you, but their actions indicate otherwise, trust their behavior.

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Robert

13 days ago

ENFJ
Libra

Actions vs words, always ❤️

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Kat

13 days ago

ESFJ
Aries

2w1

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A 100% agree 👍

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Khiesa

13 days ago

INTJ
Leo

5w4

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What if he says he's currently busy bcs his company is facing a problem and ghosting me but still check on my condition every few days, should I trust his words? Sry I'm really confused about this

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Kat

13 days ago

ESFJ
Aries

2w1

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It depends. Some people really are busy. It’s also possible that he has a lot on his plate to handle at the moment, is depressed, suffers from anxieties, etc. So it could be a rejection, yes. However, it could also mean that he asking you for patience, so he can sort through some of his problems. Without some context it’s hard to say. Context matters. If he is calling you or initiating the contact (even once) and expressing the wish to see you again or planning a new date with you, then he is interested, just busy with other things. If he doesn’t do any of this, odds are he is rejecting you. Keep in mind though everybody can be busy from time to time, but saying I’m busy is also the easiest way to convey that he is not emotionally available for whatever reason, even if he is interested in you. Meaning it might not be a rejection, but you might be better off looking for love elsewhere with a more responsive person.

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Khiesa

13 days ago

INTJ
Leo

5w4

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Aww thank you so much for answering my confusion! We have ldr relationship so we can't plan on a date. it's more than a month since the last time we had proper talk, the last time he planned to call me, he suddenly canceled it, said he was outside right a minute before I call him. Thanks to your explanation, I think it's clear now, luckily he's not my by yet.

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Kat

13 days ago

ESFJ
Aries

2w1

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You are welcome 😊 just be strong okay?

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Shayan

3 days ago

ISFJ
Libra

Yes behaviour is important. With that you also need to observe what causing that change sometimes you are not the only reason

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