People often avoid pain hoping to escape its sting, but in doing so, they might lose their way. When we stray too far from discomfort, we might miss the lessons it offers. Facing pain can help us find clarity and purpose, even if it's tough.

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Libra

Into the stillness I quietly fade, Where secrets are safe and heartaches are made A silent retreat from the world's loud din Where peace and calm, softly step in

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Sonny

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INTJ

Cancer

Change your narrative from "Why does this keep happening?" to "What is this teaching me?"

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Chells

ENTJ

Scorpio

Help Meeeee!

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Marco

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ENTJ

Gemini

Searching outside advice

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Sonny

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INTJ

Cancer

Fear often holds us back more than failure ever does.

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Celest

INFP

What advice can you give on dealing with parents?

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Sonny

18h

INTJ

Cancer

Your Life, Your Responsibility

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Celest

INFP

What advice can you share that impacted your life a lot?

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Never trust words

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ISFJ

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Cancer

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INFJ

Libra

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INFJ

Libra

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Vinay Krishna

INFJ

Libra

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Vinay Krishna

INFJ

Libra

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Lewis

10h

ISTJ

Aquarius

Rudness

People come across as so rude on here.. why bother matching.. if 1) you're just gonna ignore or 2) just be plain stand offish in chat...

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Mirabel

18h

INTJ

Pisces

My second favourite book

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Taylor

23h

ENTP

Libra

Going to bed earlier

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Vinay Krishna

INFJ

Libra

Silent screams in poetic lines, A introvert's heart with emotions that entwine A quiet refuge where feelings unfold Poetry's my voice when words grow old

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Elizabeth

21d

ENFP

Aries

1 Award

Age shamed

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Tejas Patel

18h

ISFP

Pisces

Not everyone will understand you. That's Life! Har Har Mahadev 🔱🙏 #life #Mahadev #lifeadvice

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Vinay Krishna

INFJ

Libra

In rhymes and verse I confess my fears A hidden language that wipes away my tears A desperate cry in a quiet,gentle tone Poetry's my solace and my heart unknown

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Simran

28d

ENTJ

Cancer

2 Awards

8 Letters

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Sonny

INTJ

Cancer

Being alone is not boring, it's therapy.

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REd

26d

INTP

Sagittarius

😙

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Angelo

INTP

Aries

Keep holding on

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J J Jaxy ❌🐻

INFJ

If someone intentionally tests you

As a loyalty check, to measure your commitment to them- They do not value your happiness.

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Vinay Krishna

INFJ

Libra

Suicide is not a self destruction It's a disguised murder commited by society

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Bea

1mo

INFP

Scorpio

3 Awards

For anyone needing to hear this

187

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Dale Marcella

INFJ

Aquarius

My 3 simple rules

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Dale Marcella

INFJ

Aquarius

Your presence is enough❤️

In my darkest moments, I don’t need solutions or advice. What I yearn for is simply human connection—a quiet presence, a gentle touch. These small gestures are the anchors that hold us steady when life feels like too much. Please don’t try to fix me. Don’t take on my pain or push away my shadows.... (edited) read more

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Shayde (Chaos) 👑💋

25d

INTJ

Gemini

1 Award

TRUTH 💯💯💯

For all you precious newbies. No one means what they say on here most of the time. You could be talking to someone and totally vibing one day and then they disappear the next day or is a complete and total piece of shyt. The good thing about that though is... When someone deletes themselves, it... read more

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Snigdha 🧿

26d

ISTJ

Sagittarius

🧏🏻‍♀️

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Mithu

24d

INFJ

No Limits, Just You: Overcome and Thrive

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Cece

14d

ESFJ

Libra

Type yes if you agree 😉

You could be the best person physically, spiritually, emotionally, with impeccable communication skills, loyalty, love, and much to offer. But that still won't make the wrong person commit. Commitment comes from readiness and personal choice.

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Heather (Il Grinch 💚)

11d

INFJ

Capricorn

When you have only one choice to go on...

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Sonny

INTJ

Cancer

“Don't climb a mountain for the world to see you. Climb a mountain for you to see the world.” - Unknown

It’s not about showing off to others but about discovering new perspectives for yourself. When you reach the top, the view can offer insights and reflections that are uniquely yours.

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🌀𝕊𝕡𝕒𝕔𝕖 ℂ𝕒𝕕𝕖𝕥🌀

ENFP

Scorpio

Lust leads to nothing but emptiness

Control it as soon as you can and watch how you will improve

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Jeffrey Wolfe

ISTP

Capricorn

Men here is a little tip

A beard says to the ladies if I'm too lazy to shave my face imagine what the parts I keep covered with clothes look like

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❤ Sophia aka Mango Mami ❤️

INTJ

Cancer

🤣🤣🤣

Be kind to yourself!

Lifeadvice Community

You’re such a precious human being! ☺️💫✨

Nice suggestion

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