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Adam
Adam

7d

INTJ

Gemini

Thoughts on relationship traditions

And by that I mean stuff like expecting guys to be providers/protectors and women to be homemakers sort of traditions. I personally feel such traditions are outdated and wildly unrealistic for both men and women unless the guy happens to be very well off (I'm talking making over 100k a year level well off at the bare minimum) and the woman doesn't mind being the homemaker and is okay with not having her own source of income(which seems very risky and scary and could possibly go real bad real fast). It also feels soulless and transactional to base a long term/life long relationship off of stuff like money, possessions, looks, homemaking, sex, etc. And that's not even getting into the heteronormative aspect of it all. People should be willing to work together, support each other, and come to a dynamic that works best for them instead of one default style assumed and imposed. But I'd like to know what's everyone else's views on these things here.

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Lubriel

Lubriel

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Traditions are really outdated and they don't go at the point about having a relationship or a family. I don't think it's humane to form a relationship based on income, looks, height, social value, etc. What i really think is that a relationship is formed in the first time by attraction, what you attract most of the times is the opposite of you. Having your complement is a great way to start but you gotta see if your partner is honest, loyal, respects you, is open to talk troubles, and everything that is related to a healty bond. If everything is in place and you can trust that person, it's just about talking things out and resolve life as a team, whatever works for those two will only work for them.

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J J Jaxy ❌🐻

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Yes, those gender roles aren’t very useful and they don’t account for individual strengths and interests. There’s nothing wrong with one partner managing the house while the other works, if they can afford to do that, but there are households where the husband is the stay at home dad and the wife works. What matters most is that each person gets to choose their own destiny. No one should be forced to be a homemaker if they would rather have a career. No matter what, you should always share domestic chores with your partner in whatever way makes practical sense.

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Ruben

Ruben

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ISFJ

Aries

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Greetings Adam. Excellent post. Thanks for sharing this. Traditional values are obsolete like the Betamax machine. Any relationship involves time and effort to make it work out.

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