To my soulmate—wherever you are—I hope our paths cross when the time is right.🤗💖✨

Question

Many people have asked me why I'm still single.

Yes, I am.

I've had two serious relationships in my life.

The first lasted six years. We planned to get married, but in the end, we couldn't build a future together. It took me four years to heal my heart.

The second person came into my life through this very special app. I've met many wonderful friends here, and then he quietly entered my life—but with clear intentions. We met in person, and we were together for eight months.

That relationship ended too.

Not because of something dramatic, but because of a small red flag. Some people may think it's insignificant, but I believe even a small red flag can become a long-term problem if it's ignored.

I've never considered any relationship a waste of time, even if it doesn't last forever. Every moment we shared was a choice that two people made together, and I'll always appreciate that.

However, if a relationship ends because someone chooses a third or fourth person, or because they aren't honest, then no matter how much I love them, I will walk away. I know what I deserve.

I don't choose people because of their looks or their financial status. If someone is honest and clear about their intentions, I'm always willing to get to know them.

Everyone has their own standards, values, mindset, and preferences when choosing a partner. If deep down you already know someone isn't right for you, don't hold on just because you're afraid to let go. Don't force a relationship that you know has no future.

Sometimes, by holding on to the wrong person, you may let the right one pass by. And if that person comes back into your life someday, the chances may be very small.

I just want to say this:

Never lower your standards, and never let loneliness convince you to ignore red flags. Sometimes we cling to someone because they have a few qualities we like, even though they're not the right person for us as a whole.

No one is perfect.

But I believe your intuition knows the difference.

The right person won't make you feel like you're too much or too difficult to understand. They will accept you for who you are, and both of you will naturally inspire each other to become better people—not because you're forcing yourselves to change, but because you're growing together, moving forward as one.