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Share your experience with dating after a failed serious relationship. Does anyone struggle with allowing yourself to open up vulnerably again? If so, how did you learn to trust again?

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INTP

Aries

The first step.. keep calm and put that tongue back in

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Magnus

1mo

INTJ

Leo

67

Acredito que a maioria passe a ser mais observador, de forma geral. Criar menos expectativas, menos pressão, não vejo como algo ruim. Você se torna mais forte.

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James

1mo

INFP

Aries

87

Most definitely every single situation of a relationship teachs us a lesson, I completely agree I'm a lot more closed off now since my last experience.

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Miguel

1mo

INFJ

Sagittarius

45

No, not really. It never happened to me. At least in my case, if I was dating someone and they broke up, I'd be like... "well, it happens, bye bye". It tends to upset the girls quite a bunch, though. XD

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Allan

1mo

INFJ

Taurus

23

It been incredibly tough, specially with all the dating apps. I’m just a down to earth genuine guy looking for someone to give me the chance.

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Andrés

1mo

INFP

Libra

87

La verdad es que después de mi última relación no puedo abrirme, no es fácil confiar si te han hecho mucho daño. No quieres volver a pasar por experiencias tan duras.

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Gabrio aka Milord

1mo

ENFJ

Capricorn

87

Solo l'Ego può essere ferito. L'Anima no. Sii te stessa, sii Anima, sii libera, pura! E nulla potrà più farti del male (edited)

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Shier

1mo

ENTJ

Libra

89

Hope. Just moved on..

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Daniele

1mo

ENFJ

Gemini

67

Non è stato per nulla facile uscire dalla modalità sopravvivenza e del chi va là a cui ero arrivato. Ma grazie alle amicizie vere attuali, la mia forza di volontà e dopo aver acquisito della sana tranquillità è migliorato molto e ho imparato a riavere fiducia sia in me stesso che nelle altre persone. L'unica cosa che forse è un po' uno strascico, sebbene adesso mi riapro con tranquillità sono comunque parecchio selettivo. Ma la riapertura che ho avuto ha fatto passi da gigante e non ha prezzo😌.

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Sergio

1mo

ENFJ

Taurus

78

I don’t have trouble being vulnerable since that’s way to let someone know you’re interested in

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Tom

1mo

ENFJ

Pisces

91

For me it’s still going. And sometimes I feel like I can’t trust anyone after a date. I’ve yet to find that spark again in someone. But yeah. I hope you get through this as well. I feel the pain

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Hunter

1mo

ISTP

Taurus

Struggling with that rn tbh

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TonyT

1mo

ISFJ

Virgo

😋

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Aron

1mo

ENFJ

Gemini

21

Good morning beautiful 😍 Time heels and opens you 💯

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Jason Ritchie

1mo

INTJ

Scorpio

Took me 2 years to even think about it. But here I am 🙂

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Curtis

20d

INFP

Leo

Uhh yeah it's been almost 3 years since I was pretty much devastated and idk where or how to begin I've been wanting to give it a go again but yeah....

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Shary

1mo

INFP

Virgo

21

Oh you don't trust again. You break and its new you. You don't trust the same way again... Learn to use that pain as a skill ...

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Mohamed

1mo

ENTP

Aquarius

23

Yes. Never figured that out yet

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Micheal

1mo

ENTJ

Taurus

91

Dalle esperienze si cresce e ti fortificano portarti a diventare forte !! Poi dipende dal carattere della persona . Chi è forte non si abbatte , chi invece è sensibile soffre ed a volte molto spesso si chiude in stesso .

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Lars

1mo

INFP

Sagittarius

Self esteem has been an issue ever since. I'm not the best looking guy, so it's hard out here But it's life I guess

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Alex

1mo

INFJ

Leo

87

I don't think it's the next guy/girls fault for your past and should not suffer because of it, new person new begining, but with a bit of extra care this time

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Jaime

1mo

INFJ

Virgo

45

Yo me siento más cerrado emocionalmente que antes, pero el tiempo está ayudando

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Mišo

1mo

INFJ

Libra

Nenaučil. Už nedôverujem. Tým, ktorim sa to podarilo, tak gratulujem. Ja taky naivny niesom.

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Adrian

1mo

INTJ

Gemini

Eventually depending how bad the situation gets and if u are able to cope and work on yourself u should Eventually find something depending how bad u actually want it I like to believe ppl are ment for each other

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Ben

1mo

ISTP

Aquarius

54

Depends on why you broke up. The reason will vary and the effects that will have on your future dating approaches will also vary.

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Emmanuel

28d

INTP

Leo

21

Aún no tengo una relación seria fallidas 🥺

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J

1mo

ENTJ

Aquarius

Still trying to figure it out!

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Ravin

1mo

ENFJ

Pisces

Still hard

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David

1mo

ESTP

Leo

19

"one does not get to choose a life without regrets, but does get to choose what regrets to carry." the answer to such issues is rather simple. give it a shot when when it comes down to the decision of moving forward or retreating simply ask yourself, which option would i regret not taking more based on what you've seen? that question is why I'm here at all instead of continuing to grind through life such that the decades blur together.

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Jimmy

1mo

INFJ

Leo

Inte lärt mig ett dugg.. men känner att man måste på något sätt gå vidare

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Vasco

1mo

INTP

Leo

Non lo fai

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Dennis

1mo

INFJ

Libra

54

Ich komme aus einer 16Jährigen Beziehung, das heißt ich habe seit ich 19 bin kein kontakt mit Dating oder dergleichen gehabt und jetzt mit 36 fällt mir der Einstieg mehr als schwer. Mal schauen was draus wird. (edited)

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James

1mo

INTJ

Libra

Interestingly, I realized the safety I felt in the last relationship was complete naivety. So in some ways I have a lot more fear of new ones ending. But this adds a beauty to the relationship, because it's much more impressive for something delicate to last. It also makes you a better and more gentle partner. The downside is that you do always live with that "it could end at any second" mentality, and this causes more stress in your life. Especially because as a man, your relationship is the one place in life you hope to have comfort. I am a better man now, but I was happier before. If I could choose, I would go back, but no one has that option

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Adryen

1mo

INTJ

Libra

It’s gets complicated

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Gianluca

1mo

ESTJ

Taurus

Wauuuuuu 🥰 🥰 🥰

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Tony

1mo

INTP

Aquarius

I tried to date for a bit after my last big relationship, and found it difficult to connect again because I had no more trust to give 🤷🏼‍♂️ Been single now for around 4 years.

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Nipsthehandsomeguy

19d

ESFJ

Gemini

Trust is something you can gradually achieve , it can not be gained overnight ! We seems to be like minded ! Let’s get connected)🥰

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Sergio

1mo

ENFP

Pisces

Ever since my last relationship I haven’t been able to get in another for almost 2 years but we’re doing better now and ready to try again

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Patryk

1mo

INTJ

Taurus

Pokornie przyjmuje każde doświadczenie, traktując je jako matryce moich wartości i podejścia do życia. Każdorazowo jest ono przepracowywane przeze mnie dlatego, nie zaburzam innych w stopniu, w jakim ktoś, kto bezrefleksyjnie poszukuje winnych wyłącznie na zewnątrz. Związek z kimś to zawsze jest mój wybór, moja selekcja, moje oczekiwania. Zaufanie natomiast to nie promocja 1+1 w Biedronce do pakietu ze mną i nie rozumiem, jak ktoś oburza się na fakt, iż na nie trzeba zapracować.

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Patrick

1mo

INFP

Leo

I don't struggle with being open and honest. It's part of who I am. I'd be lost without it.

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