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Jacob Mascaro
Posted Friday, August 12, 2022
1y
INTP
Gemini
Stay or go?
I counsel for a handful of people and recently discovered that one of them is in a bind. (Not real names) Joe and Jill have been married for 4 years And Joe and Eric have been close friends for 8. Jill realized she had feelings for Eric about 2 years into her marriage but stil reallyl loved Joe. While she was married they had their ups and downs like all do. Joe was a pretty good guy but had some issues and a bit of an "i dont care attitude". She said that sometimes it felt like he treated her like she didnt exist and was only good for "the deed". But Eric treated her with respect and always wanted to know what was on her mind and how he could help. Because that's how Eric was raised. She eventually told Eric how she felt and Eric felt the same way. She and Eric became really close and ended up sleeping together a few times in joes home while he was at work (eric rented their basement)... until Joe found out. He kicked eric out of the house and eventually offered for him to sleep there again and leave for the day. After a while he woke eric up and tried to fight him and lost the grabbed his Glock and pointed it at Eric's head. It's been a few months since this event happened and Jill told me how she doesn't know if she wants to leave Joe for Eric because she loves him but also loves joe. But she's scared to lose everything her and her husbandmade in the time they have been together. And she doesn't want to hurt him. So, what should I suggest for Jill to do? Go with Eric? Or stay with Joe? EDIT; I have know all three of them for years and have seen how much Joe has changed... but, I'm not sure he knows. (edited)
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Sarah
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Gemini
I think if Jill leaves Joe he's going to try to kill Eric, whether Jill goes to him or not, and will probably try to kill Jill. I think Jill should file a report with the police and find a domestic abuse center in the area. Keep a way to contact Eric, but not actually be together. Eric needs to distance from Joe, move and then if they still want to try, and didn't simply trauma-bond, then Jill can follow Eric and they can try again.
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Jacob Mascaro
1y
INTP
Gemini
Sly, it's nice to know that someone though the same thing as me about Joe hunting Erick down... And I spoke to all three of them separately and Eric has pictures of the bruises left by Joe. And Jill witnessed the entire fight go down. Because she tried to stop him. And she said Eric didn't even hit him back, just held him until he gave up.
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