I have been living the life of a woman for 20 years, and I know how irrational it sounds but I am scared of the prospect of marriage or a relationship. I love being alone but cannot escape the loneliness. Yet it feels so intolerable when other people decide to be cruel. How do you know that your chosen partner will not poison your life in the long run? How do you find someone truly safe? I admit, I have a fear of people.

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I at my 36 don't exclude option to be dead alone, even I'd say chances of it high. Though also I don't wake up near someone, who I dont know and I dont trust. In my life mistakes can cost life. So first of all survival, then after it maybe love) though I saw guys like me, or even I have friends, and their wives also o together with them had tough days even years and they already more than 10 years together and have children. All I can say - if you know your life lane, path, aa God writing it on head, sorry I'm probably not enough educated to touch it but I mean that if feel our life line/heart, if we know it, things will be fine. Namaste!🙃😊

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Scorpio

Hope you heal from everything Hope you heal from everything which you don’t talk about

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6mo

INFP

Taurus

Honestly whole life is a learning curve..you got to take chances out of which some may go your way some may not..the reason? We all arrive at a point in life when you'll end up saying wish we had taken those mad risks and done all that sht and things would've been today. So stop overthinking start meeting people and hope for the best. (edited)

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Keep your senses honed. Nobody knows when or why a person change. Toxic or good. Only they know the reason. So hope for the best and prepare for the worst

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Add to it..but yes you don't have to go all blind..someone who values you as a person the way you are than all the materialistic things in the shrewd world :)

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If that persons core values aligned with yours, That’s a good sign.

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Thank you to everyone who wrote here. I do kind of feel better. Perhaps at the time when I wrote this post I was a bit anxious but the things everyone wrote here really helps. Thank you.

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Yeah, it is scary. Relationships can be intimidating, but mutual trust and communication are the foundation. Focus on finding someone who respects your boundaries and values you for who you are. It's natural to have fears, but taking small steps and getting to know someone gradually can help.Take your time and be kind to yourself. 🙂

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Add to it..but yes you don't have to go all blind..someone who values you as a person the way you are than all the materialistic things in the shrewd world :)

If that persons core values aligned with yours, That’s a good sign.

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