The guy I fell in love with dropped a huge deal breaker on me [it's too personal for me to get into], but we are staying friends. I enjoy his company but cannot be his lover as I had hoped. With my feelings broken, I am back to the bottom, and I'm genuinely worried I won't be able to feel this intense love again. He was the first I ever felt true love for, but now that I know where he stands, I cannot continue. It's non-negotiable. I don't know what to do. I am so tired of being alone but struggle to reciprocate. Why is it so hard for me to fall in love? I don't understand... And that's why I hurt so much. I don't know what to do anymore...

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⭐Jay 🇬🇧⭐

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I'm sorry to hear. It can be a whirlwind of emotions. If you're wanting comfort over solutions, don't read the next part. If you're wanting advice, keep reading. Can I ask if you're staying friends with him because that's what you genuinely want? Or is it rather you could be in denial that you can't be his lover. Wounds don't heal if you keep it open. Respect his words but also, respect yourself. Here's something important about things that men subconsciously do; when we meet a woman, we start to treat them how we want to be treated. Over time, we start to treat women how they treat us. So when you say you "struggle to reciprocate", that may be your thing to work on. Clear, consistent signals are what men like. No games; no tests. If someone doesn't appreciate that, move on.

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It was kids werent it, alright sorry dont answer that but i feel ya, you did the right thing, and if he loved you too i bet he is as broken as you are, things will get better for both of you, just give it time

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Gotta rise above it. Learn a skill and work on becoming someone you admire. Happiness comes from within.

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I'm sorry friend, I know that feeling very well. A similar thing happened to me, and the only thing I can say is to keep your head up and maybe talk to someone about how you're having a hard time expressing your feelings. I know I'm just some random person, but if you need someone to talk to i can certainly listen.

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I bet he self identified as a broom.

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The love so intense you feel, is coming from you. You are the source of it, and you can choose to who give it. Who is WORTHY.

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It was kids werent it, alright sorry dont answer that but i feel ya, you did the right thing, and if he loved you too i bet he is as broken as you are, things will get better for both of you, just give it time

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