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Hope

1 month ago

INFJ
Aquarius

5w6

5

6

Stop being the social-chameleon.
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Dear, people. If you feel misfit, then it DOES misfit you, so just brutally trust your gut feelings. If you sense something so off, then it probably IS off. Stop trying to match your energy & surround yourself with ppl whom you can’t totally be yourself with. It’s mentally draining, ain’t worth your time, so artificial. Better keep up with those 2 closest friends of yours who make you feel REAL.

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Indra (he/him)

1 month ago

INFP
Cancer

4w5

4

5

I am always being myself ✌️😬

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Hope

1 month ago

INFJ
Aquarius

5w6

5

6

Well we all must be.

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Indra (he/him)

1 month ago

INFP
Cancer

4w5

4

5

Not really a must, just it's suggested that's it's better to be like that 😌 Because some people need to be someone else so that they can survive on this cruel society and also sometimes it's not easy to be themselves ☺️ As for me, I am lucky that my friends accept me for who I am no matter what I do and because of that I can be myself 🤭

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Hope

1 month ago

INFJ
Aquarius

5w6

5

6

I have diffferent principle on that. But then again, you do you. In the end of day just do whatever makes us feel comfortable as long as we don’t harm ourselves & everyone else out there.

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Indra (he/him)

1 month ago

INFP
Cancer

4w5

4

5

I don't think it's a must because it's sad for those people who still in a journey of self-searching, not everyone able to determine that what they thought as themselves is really themselves and not they are trying to mimic someone else, not everyone that when we asked who are them can immediately answer it, even me when someone asked me who am I, the first thing I would answer is probably my name, and then I would try to explain about my hobby, and then what I like and dislike, and then my core principle, even so, I don't think that can really show who am I, so yeah, being ourselves is hard, sometimes I am wondering did I really am myself? or did I am trying to be someone else? Is I am really who I claim to be? or I am what others think who I am? Who am I? I don't know, I am still in the middle of life journey, maybe I will find who I truly am at the end of my journey, maybe I won't 😌 One thing I know for sure is that, I always do whatever my heart telling me to do but still try to keep it on moderation because the chance of what I do will clash with others interest is high so I try to follow my heart but still try to imagine myself in other person shoes and see what effect my actions will do, if it's affect a lot of interest then I will be careful on doing it, but if it won't impede anyone interest then I will do it in full throttle 😹

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Hope

1 month ago

INFJ
Aquarius

5w6

5

6

Oh well there’s actually no obligation for you to elaborate yourself further here. What I meant by I have different principle on that was actually I didn’t against others’ opinions of how they can be themselves, I respect anyone’s preferences. But yeah good for you then on that one.

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Indra (he/him)

1 month ago

INFP
Cancer

4w5

4

5

I didn't elaborate it because of obligation or anything of sort, I just elaborate it because I want to, that's what my heart told me to do and that's what I do, I rarely use my brain 🤣🤣🤣

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Dat_guy_Kev

1 month ago

INFJ
Pisces

1w2

1

2

Hi hope. Im always a misfit, its for entertainment purposes. I get a kick out of it every so often, especially in an 'artificial' group.

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Hope

1 month ago

INFJ
Aquarius

5w6

5

6

Uhhmm unfortunately for some realistic perspectives, we gotta act chill once in a while in a group for a certain situation, even if it’s uncomfortable, but it’s just bcs we gotta respect everyone in that current certain state (if only there’s no violance occurs at that time, if there is, well well… you know what to do). But if you have to keep in touch with something that gets you no other options but faking yourself the whole time, nuh-uh bro, cut back that self-destructive habit immediately. For the sake of sanity. Better be alone than surrounding ourselves with ppl who make us feel lonely.

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Kell

2 days ago

INTP
Gemini

2w1

2

1

Being the social chameleon is helpful in a work setting. But yes, quite draining.

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Emmanuel

1 month ago

INFJ
Taurus

1w9

1

9

definitely. I'm not trying too hard anymore on this app. I'm finding it so tiring to get out of my zone to try and accept what others are giving me. now if you're not into metal, or gaming, or cats, I really couldn't care less.

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Paula

1 month ago

INFJ
Taurus

2w1

2

1

And people can tell when you aren’t authentic. It’s just awkward. Trust your gut always in everything in life!

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Namen Alucibides Gumf kNod

1 month ago

INFJ
Pisces

1w2

1

2

I fit in! I fit in! Lol. No no no...I'm far too complex to be pigeon holed.

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Hexadecimal

1 month ago

INTJ
Taurus

6w5

6

5

This is how I am, and while it is lonely, it's also far less frustrating, disappointing and anger inducing.

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Brian

1 month ago

INTJ
Libra

3w4

3

4

Social chameleons are really just people afraid to take a stand on anything because the worst thing that can happen in their world is one person disliking them.

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