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Tessa

1 month ago

ENFP
Cancer
Someone to...

I miss having partnership. Someone to enjoy hobbies together, going on adventures and just feeling so secure and happy. Does anyone else find it common for younger generations to struggle with friendships/relationships because of lack of emotional maturity and poor attention spans? I literally have 2 good friends and they're in different states than me😭

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Remedy

1 month ago

INTP
Aries

1w9

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just wanted to stop and say that this post made me feel less isolated and old - if someone 18 years younger than me is having the same struggles that i am, then that definitely means it’s situational. while it’s work to find people who are awake and want to have real experiences, we’re out there!

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Tessa

1 month ago

ENFP
Cancer

Yeah it makes me scared when I see all the woman in my family still struggle with this and I'm like well damn😭😭 what am I supposed to do

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Telvar Hakim

1 month ago

INTJ
Aquarius

7w8

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Just hang out with me.

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Chuck

1 month ago

INFJ
Libra

9w8

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Its definitely a different world nowadays

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Tessa

1 month ago

ENFP
Cancer

It really is

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AnhQuan

1 month ago

INTP
Sagittarius

I buy plane tickets.

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Tessa

1 month ago

ENFP
Cancer

Periodt

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Zachary

1 month ago

INTJ
Capricorn

Absolutely, it's been a lot of life searching to understand that everyone is different and "Can" be products if environment, when we break the shackles of all of these restrictions we've developed and lived mentally we can make honest and sincere communications to others , ayahuasca was a good healer for anybody looking for spiritual cleanser, has purged and unblocked the channels to fully connect everywhere, not the answer to everything but it's a holy plant for sure

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Boban

1 month ago

ESFJ
Aries

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I do have such a problem when I encounter a person from gen Z, but that sort of plague has spread to my generation as well, from the 1990s. It is hard, yeah, but among all the rotten apples there always seems to be the one you could pick. Just take it easy. You won't end up alone if you don't give up. Highly improbable, Tess. πŸ™‚

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Tessa

1 month ago

ENFP
Cancer

It's just disappointing ya know😭

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Genti

1 month ago

ISFJ
Scorpio

It's so hard to make plans when both of your friends are busy all the time lmao...

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Genti

1 month ago

ISFJ
Scorpio

I deeply felt this post is what I'm saying.

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Tessa

1 month ago

ENFP
Cancer

😩😩😩

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Genti

1 month ago

ISFJ
Scorpio

U seem like a really cool person. Hopefully the people around you start to see that as well and u make tons of friends. Bonne chance.

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Tessa

1 month ago

ENFP
Cancer

I appreciate itπŸ’•

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Matthew

1 month ago

INFP
Pisces

Yes. TikTok is a strong reason why attention spans are being shortened. Younger people these days cannot watch a long term video for example for more than 3 minutes without losing focus. Yes I'm probably in the minority with my opinion. But from Vine, to TikTok, to Reels, to Shorts on YouTube. It's going to get worse.

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Tessa

1 month ago

ENFP
Cancer

Me who literally can't pay attention to long videos lol but I can focus on books so atleast I got that lol

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Matthew

1 month ago

INFP
Pisces

Thats definitely a plus yes lol

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David

1 month ago

INFJ
Libra

I think this issue is a result of a much deeper root. The reality is that this world has changed drastically even just looking at it 30 years ago. Maybe those changes will be for the better, but it's clear to me that they are having a huge impact on our relationships with each other. From my own experience it seems like there is an increased desire towards... idk let's just call it "throw away relationships". People seem to just want short term fun without any regard to how that will effect the long term. πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ By the time they find a solid partner they are so desensitized that the relationship seems boring.

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Tessa

1 month ago

ENFP
Cancer
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100% agree. That makes sense

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David

1 month ago

INFJ
Libra

If the earth was put up for sale, it would definitely be an "as is" deal🀣🀣🀣

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Tessa

1 month ago

ENFP
Cancer

🀣🀣🀣 no returns

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Telvar Hakim

1 month ago

INTJ
Aquarius

7w8

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I completely understand what u mean. I moved to Virginia about 3 years ago and still bored with no close friends. I been looking for cool ppl for a min. Lol. But ayeeee. At least we got this site huh

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