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Carla

15 days ago

INFJ
Gemini

1w2

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We were meant to be alive, so if you ever consider suicide, remember that you aren’t here by accident. We know this subconsciously, but realize this consciously.
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Ariana

15 days ago

INTP
Sagittarius

9w1

9

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If only it was that simple.

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Carla

15 days ago

INFJ
Gemini

1w2

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It is this simple, people just complicate it.

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Andy the Paladin

15 days ago

INTJ
Sagittarius

3w4

3

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Just hang in there. I see a young beautiful lady who still has a lot of life to live, so seize the day and live your life.

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Ariana

14 days ago

INTP
Sagittarius

9w1

9

1

Im not talking about myself. I just think this type of thinking is what is known as toxic positivity, its the equivalent of telling someone who is depressed to just be happy. It's not helpful and it can actually be harmful.

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Andy the Paladin

14 days ago

INTJ
Sagittarius

3w4

3

4

Oh ok, misinterpreted it then

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Elanor

15 days ago

INFP
Cancer

8w7

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I don’t believe in “meant to be”, but I find it pretty motivating to think this life is all we have. We’d better make the most of it while we have the chance.

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Carla

15 days ago

INFJ
Gemini

1w2

1

2

If we weren’t meant to be alive, we wouldn’t’ve been conceived.

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Elanor

15 days ago

INFP
Cancer

8w7

8

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Meant to be, by who? My parents? Would it cease being worth it when they stop existing? I don’t think so

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Carla

15 days ago

INFJ
Gemini

1w2

1

2

By the fact of the essence of life/living itself.

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Elanor

14 days ago

INFP
Cancer

8w7

8

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I guess I’m just not that spiritual. I don’t think life has an “essence” that can have intent. I don’t really think life, in and of itself, has a point or purpose. It’s fine by me- what is, is enough to live for. We’re on this special and unique planet in this unfathomably huge and awesome universe, and a handful of decades is all we have to take it all in. That alone is enough reason to not end it early.

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Carla

14 days ago

INFJ
Gemini

1w2

1

2

There is a point in life, but to see and understand that takes choice. I can still see your perspective.

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Alexandre

14 days ago

INTP
Gemini

5w4

5

4

No, we were not "meant" to be. Sure, your parents might have planned it. But their own existence is part of a chaotic chain of events. And they're still not giving you a purpose. It's your job and no one else's. If you think our existence is orchestrated, then you also reject the idea of free will. Unfortunately, suicide is the result of free will.

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Carla

14 days ago

INFJ
Gemini

1w2

1

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I wasn’t planned. No, even if I would have been planned, I would still be given free will. We innately have free will. I take responsibility for my own actions, that’s why we have laws and why those laws are based on good morality. Yes, suicide is included in free will.

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Alexandre

14 days ago

INTP
Gemini

5w4

5

4

Therefore, we weren't meant to be alive. It wasn't destined to happen.

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Alexandre

14 days ago

INTP
Gemini

5w4

5

4

The app might be buggy (again), but your reply doesn't show up

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Carla

13 days ago

INFJ
Gemini

1w2

1

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Really?? I did reply. But I said “Just because someone chooses to kill themselves, it doesn’t mean that’s their life’s purpose. They just chose that. People can contradict the truth, yet that won’t make the truth change or seize to exist.”

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Alexandre

13 days ago

INTP
Gemini

5w4

5

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Yeah, some other people noticed this bug as well. I told the app's support and they tried to gaslight me about it. So the bug is going to stay. I know this is going to sound wrong in this context. But someone's life purpose is their business. It comes from their consciousness, not from the outside. Some people took life decisions that upset me. It was rough, but I had to learn and respect their choice. All you can do is let them know you care and hope for the best. And prove it.

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Carla

13 days ago

INFJ
Gemini

1w2

1

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Of course, it’s their choice, but the point of this topic/discussion is that life/living’s purpose isn’t death. And it does sound wrong because it is wrong LoL nonetheless, I deeply appreciate you going into this discussion with me.

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Alexandre

13 days ago

INTP
Gemini

5w4

5

4

Yeah, it's just not that easy. We can always pull a context that is food for thoughts. I'd rather not assume what someone should be thinking. I do disagree with most suicidal thoughts nonetheless.

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Shelle

15 days ago

INFJ
Leo

Everyone on this app posts like this it's becoming a seriously depressing app

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