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Christy
Christy

26d

INFP

Gemini

6
7

Just my preference, but I'm sure some others will relate

Look, I gotta be real with yall. Guys messaging stuff like, "omfg youre so cute hmu" is not as flattering a first message that you think it is. I personaly would much rather get, "Hey!" or "My name is (blank). I saw on your profile that we have (this) in common! You interested in talking about it?" I know dating sites don't really add a tonality of a place. At a club? Probably going to be a bit more mature out of the gate. At a park? You definately start out tame. Im a coffee place kinda gal. You saw what coffee I like, start an appropriate conversation. "Please step on my face" is not one of these starters for me. (my examples, not calling out anyone specific)

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Edward

Edward

26d

INTP

Scorpio

9
1

I promise nobody is messaging you talking about "you're so cute" or "step on my face"

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Tatjana

Tatjana

25d

INFP

Cancer

4
5

I agree that it seems like a sort of generic way to start a convo. I like when people mention a shared interest, since it leads to more in-depth and interesting discussions

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Dan

Dan

26d

INTJ

Capricorn

4
5

That's understandable. I usually leave compliments as comment (because I like being positive to people) but in messages it makes sense to make efforts for a good conversation Though I've heard the first message "Hey" is a death sentence for the convo lol

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Jennifer

Jennifer

26d

INTJ

Capricorn

8
7

Absolutely, Christy! A thoughtful approach really makes a difference. It’s all about connection over flashy lines. I appreciate you bringing this up!

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Kenn

Kenn

26d

INFJ

Sagittarius

Don't you want to know what they are really like up front instead of finding out later that they just wanted you to step on thier face?

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Sean

Sean

25d

ENFP

Sagittarius

9
1

Very realistic though, I wouldn't want to just go out of the blue with HI WANNA TALK ABOUT THIS??? Like I'd much rather just find my way into a conversation with the person and maybe start with a how was your day? Or How are you doing today? Simple things like that.

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Ken

Ken

12d

INTJ

Capricorn

"Please Step on my face" is crazy for a first time message. That's a solid 3rd date topic 😄

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Edward

Edward

26d

INTP

Scorpio

9
1

Your dms are disabled so how could anyone message you saying that shi? 🤣🤣

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Aidan

Aidan

26d

INFJ

Sagittarius

Thanks this was actually really good info I should have known that my male friends wouldn't know how to speak to women.

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Andy

Andy

26d

INTJ

Aries

6
7

It's really just BOA isn't it?

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Anthony

Anthony

10d

ENFP

Gemini

2
1

What about the one-two compliment+connection combo? 'I noticed and appreciate something about your self-expression, also, here's a conversation thread to pull'

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Joseph

Joseph

26d

INTP

Leo

It's good to see confirmation of my theory that the success of a first message is basically down to random chance because I see woman complain about your preferred openers all the time lol

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