Too shy

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I came here become I’m too shy to approach anyone outside. But even here I’m too shy to accept or talk to anyone. What should I do?😖

Von · Accepted Answer

I mean just accept it anyways? You cant change something about yourself if your not doing anything to change it. Asking is good but just click the accept button and see what happens. I guarantee you it will open up your world to so many things and if you ever want to talk/rant about anything. I'm always available

Alec Steele · Answer

Teach yourself how to smile more. And don't spend so much time in your head. I know, easier said than done but try to find something that makes you happy and feel good about yourself. And try and remind yourself you are worth it. Remember, you are amazing in your own way. If all else fails. Just say hi and start from there. I used to be shy too but I've learned a lot over time. Not too talk myself up to much of course. Lol 😁

Robert · Answer

I've learned thst just "full sending it" makes you incredibly more confident.
Take the loss sometimes, move onto the next. It's the rush of just shooting your shot at saying "Screw it" that is so fun

Meowie · Answer

Totally on the same boat 😅. I think when talking to people online it's less stressful. It's a way to just sit in that uncomfortable nausea of meeting new people and practice what works for you when starting new conversations. Sometimes people respond, sometimes they don't and that's ok! It's easier practice online than in person for me for sure! It takes time.

Jon · Answer

It just takes one person to help you open up to what's out here

Jir · Answer

Thanh you for sharing, that mustn't be easy to

Maybe it's worth asking yourself and exploring why?

In my own experience it's usually a protective mechanism to prevent one's self from being hurt.

Push yourself to go outside your comfort zone. It'll be hard and won't always go the way you want, but you'll be glad you did in the end.

Either way, best of luck to you on your journey!

Jacob · Answer

Build courage and confidence.

These are things that will take time and effort, which you'll have to work at and push yourself to go through with what makes you uncomfortable. Start small maybe, chat more here and respond to people. Go outside to like bars or other hangout places, learn how to step forward and talk and train that as a skill.

Paul · Answer

congrats on making this first of all. I mean pretty much noone is here to harm you maybe be a lil creepy and desperate but you know you just block them, I have social anxiety but like after COVID I just never left my house and idk for excitement I meet random internet friends even if it's awkward AF, once I meet a random stranger in Texas to talk about crypto and it was fun and scary because I thought he would Rob me but the guy was the incarnation of greed and I he had no idea what wanted so building a product for him would be impossible, wife was cute and a brilliant dental hygienist and I do wish he stayed but the point is nothing bad happened even though it was scary, you have to take risks in life in order to get somewhere

Thomas · Answer

When in doubt ask questions.

Frn · Answer

We all don't know each other. Just let it out. Once you get embarrassed and get into awkward situations you'll gain experience and keep getting better trust me!

Jarrell · Answer

Reply to posts like I'm doing lol

Justin · Answer

I totally feel this. Take baby steps. If you get a like from someone you are interested in, accept their request, and maybe they'll reach out first. If not, ask a simple question. It should work, but might take time.

Too shy

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I've learned thst just "full sending it" makes you incredibly more confident. Take the loss sometimes, move onto the next. It's the rush of just shooting your shot at saying "Screw it" that is so fun

It just takes one person to help you open up to what's out here

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