Anamika

Posted January 28, 2023

INTP
Libra

What will you choose between friendship and love?

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Snags

2mo

ESTJ
Leo

My best friend is the person I love, so they're the same for me.

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Anamika

2mo

INTP
Libra

You are lucky🍀 😇

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Snags

2mo

ESTJ
Leo

@Anamika I mean, I've never met someone who was married, who didn't consider their spouse their best friend. I think it's pretty common for that to be one and the same.

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Anamika

2mo

INTP
Libra

@Snags everyone has their own opinion.. But what about if we talk in context to before marriage..

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Snags

2mo

ESTJ
Leo

@Anamika for many people, the person they're dating is their best friend.

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Edealys

1mo

INFJ
Libra

@Snags it's not the same thing. Cuz in love - couple , there is also the sharing of intimacy. I don't want to make love with my friends. neither to take them in my arms nor to give them lots of kisses but to my darling if 😄😊

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Snags

1mo

ESTJ
Leo

@Edealys it is the same for ME. The person I'm married to IS my best friend. She is the person I trust the most, who is closest to me, and who I spend the most time with. It doesn't have to go both ways. Just because someone is my friend doesn't mean I love them romantically. But it would be really sad if I wasn't best friends with the person I love. I don't want to be married to someone I don't even like that seems dumb. And, love has nothing to do with physical intimacy. The definition of love is "feeling of deep affection." It does not mean sex, kissing, etc. Plenty of people love each other and do not take part in physical sexual interaction. :)

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Amo

1mo

ENFP
Pisces

Wow

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Rakiful Alam

1mo

INTP
Pisces

@Anamika hi

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Arun kumar

1mo

ENFJ
Cancer

Love

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Raunak

1mo

ISFJ
Sagittarius

Life has always taught me to choose friendship over love because if you love someone it's not necessary that he or she will love you back

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Anamika

1mo

INTP
Libra

Damn true.. I agree

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Edealys

1mo

INFJ
Libra

except that if you don't tell him you will never know if this person loves you too or not. so it turns out you will be friends while you love each other to the point of wanting to be in a relationship together. choosing fear is never the right path unless you are chased by a dinosaur and your fear tells you to run 😄🤭

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Raunak

1mo

ISFJ
Sagittarius

@Edealys we can find out how with Vibes we get but people get confuse. The difference between is we can feel is intimacy. If someone truly loves you he or she will be always afraid to loose you so they wait for the right moment for to confess

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Chirag

1mo

ENTP
Leo

100% ture I agree

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Rakiful Alam

1mo

INTP
Pisces

@Anamika How are You

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suhail a k

2mo

ISFP
Scorpio

Friends will be always with us even lover dumbs you

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Anamika

1mo

INTP
Libra

True.. But very few people really understand the power of true Friendship

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Edealys

1mo

INFJ
Libra

No. relationships come and go. anyway, nothing is by chance. if a relationship ends it's quebles 2 souls have nothing more to live together (temporarily or not) and it leaves room for other people who can be better. you just have to remember that the quality of the people you meet depends on the quality of the relationship you have with yourself ;)

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suhail a k

1mo

ISFP
Scorpio

@Anamika there are people who understands the value of deep friendship

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Chirag

1mo

ENTP
Leo

@Anamika yes there are very few who understand true friendships

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Daniel

2mo

ISFJ
Libra

Friendship. Because you can still feel love either way.

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Anamika

2mo

INTP
Libra

Quite appropriate 👌👌

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INFP
Taurus

8w7

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Agreed

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Tim Anderson

2mo

ISTJ
Leo

6w5

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Isn't the point of all that to have both.

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Anamika

2mo

INTP
Libra

Yes.. Should be.. But here talking about a circumstance.. If such condition occurs.. Then

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Nihal Dubey

2mo

INFJ
Leo

8w7

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I just gave up friendship for the first time, it was hard for me but more harder for her i guess

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Anant

1mo

ISTJ
Aries

8w7

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Friendship blossoms to love when the heart craves for the friend as the right soul or the equate. But, there are high possibilities that this may be temporary when the desire to travel as friends is higher. Pure love is not a transformation but an equaliser that forms a bond between two souls which intends to go through all sort of emotions until the end.

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Anamika

1mo

INTP
Libra

Beautiful✨

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Rain

2mo

ENTJ
Aries

8w7

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Mike

2mo

INFJ
Pisces

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Friendship

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Anamika

2mo

INTP
Libra

That's a great decision😇

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Andrés Castro

2mo

ISFJ
Libra

1w9

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If was a long time friendship, always choose friendship

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Anamika

2mo

INTP
Libra

I agree👍👍

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Flow Mar Lora

2mo

ENFJ
Aquarius

9w1

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In order: Friendship, unconditional love, love as an added bonus, and staying best friends afterwards despite the outcome

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Yunus

1mo

INFP
Sagittarius

friendship,because with that I can find happiness not because of love

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Dharm

2mo

ENTJ
Scorpio

6w7

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Both are different things in life for me

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Anamika

2mo

INTP
Libra

But in a situation if you have to choose one then?

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Dharm

2mo

ENTJ
Scorpio

6w7

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@Anamika love it is

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Anamika

2mo

INTP
Libra

@Dharm 👍😇

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Leon

2mo

ENTJ
Leo

8w7

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Friendship is love (without sex) but is love yet.

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Anamika

1mo

INTP
Libra

That's true

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Amandeep

1mo

ENTJ
Aries

Both

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Von

1mo

ENFP
Leo

Hard to say. Neither last forever.

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Fawwad Ansari

1mo

ISTJ
Aries

Loving friends 🙂

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Jaime

1mo

INTP
Scorpio

6w5

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The second without the first is transient, fire is warming now but dies out with no kindling.

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Bob

1mo

INFP
Leo

Neither

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