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Kevin

4 days ago

INTP
Virgo
I find it kind of funny
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I keep seeing people on here complain about not getting what they want. I'm starting to think it's rare for people to realize they aren't owed anything. You can be nice, good, or even perfect according to how you see it but you are not owed anything when it comes to relationships.

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Paul

4 days ago

INTJ
Sagittarius

5w6

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I'd say there's some truth to that. Another part is it is so easy to be left hanging without ever being told why. You get asked a simple question, you answer earnestly and never get a response. Then you think: Did I say something wrong? Did they match with someone else? Did they rethink if I'm suitable? Etc How many people will actually take the time to say to someone "I won't be replying further for X reason"? Or worse. You have a decent profile, send out likes or messages but get no matches. What's there to tell you what's happening. Is it you? is it the viewers? the algorithm? There's no feedback so there's no way to improve or be better.

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Kelly

4 days ago

ENFP
Sagittarius

This seems like one of the bigger issues with online dating. You rarely get any helpful feedback.

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Kevin

4 days ago

INTP
Virgo

And what's more is if you do try to get some advice it's what worked for that person usually. Which doesn't mean it'll work for them

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Lo

4 days ago

INFJ
Scorpio

5w6

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I guess when you have been consistently talking to someone after a few days it's not the algorithm, it's when the other person isn't longer interested in you, that's when they no longer respond and impolitely leave you hanging. But for the most part, it's the algorithm especially if you're using it for free. But I do hope really, no one should be left behind hanging. Cheer up!

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Kelly

4 days ago

ENFP
Sagittarius

I agree. The problem with thinking it's owed is that you're expecting another person to do something for you against their will. A relationship is something that is built between two people based on mutual connection, not something one person commands the other to do.

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Lo

4 days ago

INFJ
Scorpio

5w6

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Just because complaining I guess is the most easiest thing to do for most that they tend to forget how to be happy and content because of too much expectations.🤷

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skyler behunin

4 days ago

ISTJ
Virgo

Facts

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Kenneth Lim

4 days ago

ENFJ
Libra

1w9

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I left swipe women alot more than the average man because once I see a red flag, I don't bother. People believe that abundance means more opportunities. That is not true. Being more specific might mean less matches, but "usually" better because there is less to focus on.

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Scott

4 days ago

INFJ
Virgo

Entitlement is a serious problem. When we spoil kids more than ever this is what happens though...

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