Posted Wednesday, August 3, 2022
3y
ENTJ
Taurus
7How Aware is Too Aware?
I noticed some really bad signs early on in my first and only relationship, but I noticed subtle changes and other things that made me hold on. Do you think, you can be so thoughtful, and have such strange priorities, that even though you notice those things, you'd hold on? Thinking that you'd get something out of it in the long run, or die trying, and that since you lived this long, you might as well keep pushing, just to see how far you can take it? I knew she was cheating on me, but I loved her anyway. She doesn't understand true love right now, and I'm not sure she ever will, but I got an even better understanding when she finally tried to truth bomb me. I understand forgiveness *and* setting boundaries. I found a love that survived the absolute worst you could do to it. The main point I'm trying to figure out is, if you're hurting, but you know something is going to change forever, is that hurt still worth it?
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Gabe
3y
INTP
Aquarius
5Awareness is a great thing, a powerful tool, but easily abused, both consciously and unconsciously, in both the manner and lack of use it is given. Just knowing what you perceive is useless if not acted upon. And using it for twisted gains is evil. And dont forget, when all you focas on are the negatives, even the 'dont think about' thoughts will lead you to focas on that which you should. Just remeber to apply your wisdom and your actions. If you believe it be patients or action, follow yourself. I hope this helps, and best of luck!
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Jio
3y
INFJ
Taurus
3From what I’ve learned in my experiences, you shouldn’t expect and/or assume. You shouldn’t be complacent that things will be always the same. I hate being too aware too. It makes me an overthinker. And from the tests I’ve made, it never really does any good. Sure, you might be right when you feel like something is going on. Sometimes, you might even say “ignorance is bliss”. I guess what I’m really trying to say is, just keep being you. Don’t change or it won’t be true happiness. You notice subtle changes from the other party? You, don’t change. Don’t expect them to be as aware as you are. Being angry at it will just make it worse. One other way is to talk it out with the other party. So they know what you feel and are going through
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Cedric
3y
INFJ
Capricorn
1Sadly not many truly know what loves in and those who do truly love are the ones who get hurt the most. We best in people and believe the best in people. We want to believe everyone can be better person but sometimes the people we want to be with and help the most are to broken. As empathy we make excuses for them. Give them another chance. Never knowing when to many will be to many chances given.
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