I don't think anyone is saying it's wrong for these women to date, but more that certain men these days seem to be in search of women who already have kids specifically. Which I've noticed too, as someone who doesn't have kids, I've had men act disappointed/ghost mewhen I told them I didn't. Could be a coincidence or something else at play, but that's what the discussion is about: is it because these men are looking for certain qualities that being a mom might give you? Or are they fetishizing it? Or something else?
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Shayde (Chaos) 👑💋
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@Allison Exactly. 💯💯💯
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Matt
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@Allison oh ok. i cant say ive observed this, but im only one guy. hmmm...if it is a trend, i could think of a couple explanations.
@Shayde (Chaos) 👑💋 A yo mumma delivered with precision.. 😅👍🏻
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Zachrion
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As far as I know it's always been a fetish but idk if it's becoming more popular rn or not. Kids just give me a reason to stay being the nerd I already am lol
Yes but because she has the mom title, it's more lusts related than something genuine
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Shayde (Chaos) 👑💋
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💯💯💯
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Jason
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I don't know of any guy in his thirties or older who wouldn't date a woman with children, myself included. As long as you're a responsible mother and goodperson that's all that matters.
Posted Saturday, July 22, 2023
4mo
Is it... ? 😳
Is there a weird fetish going around that most men nowadays WANT to date a women who has children ? I mean, it means that we obviously know how to be patient, because being a parent is hard work and you need A LOT of patience for all the shenanigans they pull. Lol but is this true ? 😳
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People fetishize anything these days, so that is a yes.
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Considering the desire for children is baked into the DNA, and women who are of childbearing age by and large do wind up having kids, excluding mothers from the dating pool is pretty difficult. As well as unfair to a huge chunk of women. Not every pregnancy comes with a complete family as a result, and marriages fail more often than they succeed. So there are a great many women out there who either have no father in their kids lives, or else dad stuck around but the marriage didnt last. Or the man died. Lots of ways you get women with kids but no guy. Why is it wrong for her to date, or for guys to want to date a woman with kids? So long as mom isnt neglecting her kids, and the man isnt hurting the kids, then what exactly is the problem?
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I don't think anyone is saying it's wrong for these women to date, but more that certain men these days seem to be in search of women who already have kids specifically. Which I've noticed too, as someone who doesn't have kids, I've had men act disappointed/ghost me when I told them I didn't. Could be a coincidence or something else at play, but that's what the discussion is about: is it because these men are looking for certain qualities that being a mom might give you? Or are they fetishizing it? Or something else?
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@Allison Exactly. 💯💯💯
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@Allison oh ok. i cant say ive observed this, but im only one guy. hmmm...if it is a trend, i could think of a couple explanations.
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Since when has high blood pressure been a fetish?
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4mo
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Ever met an Irish woman?
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4mo
You should ask your mother. 💯
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@Shayde (Chaos) 👑💋 A yo mumma delivered with precision.. 😅👍🏻
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As far as I know it's always been a fetish but idk if it's becoming more popular rn or not. Kids just give me a reason to stay being the nerd I already am lol
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4mo
I LOVE this response. Hahaha 😁👍🏻
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Yes but because she has the mom title, it's more lusts related than something genuine
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💯💯💯
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4mo
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I don't know of any guy in his thirties or older who wouldn't date a woman with children, myself included. As long as you're a responsible mother and good person that's all that matters.
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I can't speak for everyone but i personally don't mind it.
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I'd date a woman with kids
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4mo
I hope not
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4mo
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Probably fetishize “the mom aesthetic” a little too much. That’s a yikes from me!
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Couldn't imagine dating a woman with kids.
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My ex was a single mom. Helped raise her son from 7 to 16 then I got the boot. Never again lmao
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