Enolairs

Posted May 22, 2023

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How to upgrade someone's maturity faster?

I have tried many things, telling everything, showing examples but seem immaturity person will not understand it without they experience it by themselves.

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Ben

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You CANNOT change someone if they don't want to.

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Enolairs

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Even if they want, but maturity is not to change by other I think, they have to experience it. Once I explain he will understand and willing to change but when it come to face the same problem they will respond like how he was, like he couldn't control himself, even after that he know he should act like that. Still his factory settings couldn't handle the upgrade. They don't have capability yet to do

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Ben

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@Enolairs you cannot force someone to mature. you can't make anything happen in someone elses head without torture or abuse.

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Enolairs

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@Ben agree with you 👍 thanks for sharing 😊

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Chris

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Give them responsibility and have them take more ownership / accountability.

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Enolairs

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You are right, thanks for sharing 😊

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Shen

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Maturity comes with experience.

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Enolairs

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Agree with you, we couldn't do anything with it 💔

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Pankaj

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If they are not acting matured, the most matured thing you can do is stop trying and let them be. Let them fail, let them learn.

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Enolairs

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Thanks for sharing 🙏

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Aditya Raj Singh Tomar

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Give a kid a cycle. The kid will fall, scrape knee. One day the kid will cycle better than before. It's all about experience. Not everyone's willing to agree with everyone's every word. Few actually take precautions.

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Aditya Raj Singh Tomar

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So that means if someone's not knowing how to approach their crush, push em to approach. Whatever happens next would be their life experience. Help them analize what went wrong or right if necessary.

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Enolairs

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Thank you for sharing 😊

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Joaquim

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You gave tge answer yourself.

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