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Atih Budianti
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Am I? Why Am I Also Feel that Way?

In this middle of week, Im reading new book titled 'Adult Children of Emotional Immature Parents' by Lindsay C. Gibson. The whole book is amazing, as far as I read. Some points are keeping up on my mind. Why am I also feel that way? Why am I being rushed to find someone who love me? But in other side of me, clearly think that I should find the one who only looking at me and make me feeling totaly secure above everything. Im growing up from emotionally immature parents. Lets say like that. Having broken home family never coming to my mind. But few years looking at my mom crying after pray, such a traumatize event that keep circling in my mind. Im not feeling secure with my family for some years, but I know, outside might be more scary than all this nightmare. I wont repeat the past, from my family or others stories. I read this book to make sure of my self that Im totaly worth for my self and I only having my self to continuing my life. I wont begging to someone who cant and dont want to stay with me. I'll let them be, bcs I only can control myself, not them. I wont wasting my time, mind or energy to people who dont do same thing as me. I might want to getting marry with someone in the future, but I'll make sure to my self that Im ready for any possibilities. If you want come to my life and loving me, I'll let you and I'll do the same. But if you want to go, I'll never begging you to stay. Be strong for my self. Its hard to grown up like this but its the fate that I should face. This book is truly amazing. I found good insight at it. Super recommended! #book #psychology #childpsychology

Adult Children of Emotional Immature Parents p.40

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Well, i often told my friends that "everything depends on something." Maybe this will help, a little bit. Don't rush, only the patiences survives longer than the rushes. 😁

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